Family & Relationships - 23 August 2006

I live in a foreign country with my husband, It is not very safe so in the evenings there is often nothing to do but watch TV. My husband enjoys watching TV for about 2-3 hours almost everynight. I do not mind this, but he insists that I also watch. It sound crazy but he thinks it is rude if I draw, read, sew or do anthing else during TV time. I don't see why it should bother him. He says it is rude to do something else in the same room as someone watching TV even if it does make noise. Can anyone tell me who is correct?

2006-08-23 18:30:04 · 10 answers · asked by Sophia75 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-23 18:28:43 · 4 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Family

Is there any way I can learn to last longer while having sex with my girlfriend? I want her to feel good too but I just can't keep up with her. Is there any way for me to last longer?

2006-08-23 18:28:23 · 4 answers · asked by Cameron 3 in Singles & Dating

.....a goodnights rest....muuuaaahh!

2006-08-23 18:28:13 · 3 answers · asked by MzChamillinator 5 in Singles & Dating

The other night he came outside my house and played his guitar singing some songs.
Today, he sent me roses to my work place and asked me out.
he also called a close guy friend of mine and asked him to give up on me cos i'd be back by his side.
omg.. he really freaks me out and I just wanna be alone. I have told him clearly "it's over!". we are impossible!
help me pls..

2006-08-23 18:26:40 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

My father-in-law just recently passed away. He had no will. My husband, his brother, and his sister were informed by their step-mother that if they wanted anything of their fathers, they had to buy it. This sounds totally wrong to me. I always thought that the children were entitled to a parents property. Thank everyone for their responses ahead of time. Nickie

2006-08-23 18:26:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and you new there was no way you would ever make it back to this world as you know.Who would it be and why.

2006-08-23 18:25:55 · 14 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

If the bible says that no one sin is greater than another, then why do we as christians look down on people who commit adultry or people that are gay? Doesn't the bible say that God is the judge and we are suppose to love each other? I know that there is no one free from sin (except Jesus). So, if all sins are equal, then when we point out anothers wrong doing, isn't that like the pot calling the kettle black?

2006-08-23 18:25:44 · 15 answers · asked by jennifer c 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If you dont know anyone who has it, how do u make it yourself? Serious answers please.

2006-08-23 18:25:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my son is going to a new school where he is now the minority, (culture shock) ive tried to encourage him, telling him it dosnt matter about peoples color, but he is getting picked on. he is small for his age, pretty tough being the youngest of 4 boys, but i dont want him fighting, someone told me he needs to or they will keep picking on him, i want to call the school, he dosnt want me to, what should i do? he is usually a happy kid, but he isnt liking this at all, going to another school isnt an option at this time, and i dont like the message that would send. im not letting him see me upset, but my heart is breaking for him, hes in 6th grade

2006-08-23 18:24:43 · 23 answers · asked by ruby_71572 2 in Friends

My new husband of nine months tried to cheat on me two months ago with two different girls. He was making phone calls to different girls. Ran the phone bill up by sitting on the phone with them for hours upon hours.. They planned to meet and with one girl he actually did meet up with her and I believe i found them before he had a chance to do anything. almost certain that if i had not shown up they would have had sex. i found out and we fought and then decided to work it out. I cannot get over it. Its been a little over a month and it still hurts.. a lot. I havent had sex with him since, I dont trust him, i feel disgusted and am reminded of how her hurt me every time he touches me. And if i so happen to bring up the situation he thinks i am in the wrong for bringing up the past. I know we cannot get past it until I forget and forgive.. but i dont think i will ever forget and i don't know how to forgive this. Has anyone ever been in the same situation? how do i get past this?

2006-08-23 18:24:29 · 8 answers · asked by linzylynnz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend and I were discussing the fact about wether or not people cheat(to include kissing) atleast once in their life. They were saying that "everyone" does it atleast once in their life, and I was disagreeing saying that "everyone" has not or will not cheat in their life.

2006-08-23 18:24:25 · 5 answers · asked by pfletch 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

picture of jesus I am drawing.

2006-08-23 18:23:41 · 15 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

can you be my friend.

2006-08-23 18:23:01 · 7 answers · asked by rocky 1 in Friends

im love him so much i cant able to leav without him but he dont believe on me.we spend three years with our relation he always have problems ith my friends specialy boys,he said i dont like when u taking with any boy.according to him we r not able to understand each other or we need to breaup but i cant do this coz i love him so much and i know he loved me so much but coz of this problem i dont want to loose him.i dont understand how could i maintain this relation.i always telling him truth but he dont believe on me im not hiding anything of him not even my family personal probelms or my problems even i like some one i tell him all thing.i told him 10 time there is diffrence between love and liking i like many guys but i only love him. he thought im not caring about him but is nothing like that im just 21 and he is 25.i have no problem to compromise with him but atleast he need to believe me.plz hep me.

2006-08-23 18:22:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I wrote my ex-bf an email telling him he never loved me and he lead my heart on for so long and he lied through out are whole relationship i only did it because i want him to move on from me and i'm miserable without him and he doesn't understand that or how i'm feeling he seems to think i'm always going to be there and i just would love to hear him say he doesn't love me anymore but he won't say it i know it's a bit rushed but it hurts more with me thinking that's how he's feeling because he won't say anything he can say he loves me but he has another girlfriend and i love him i think he's so great but i'm so hurt and depressed over it i think crazy thoughts about myself and i just want it to stop but i can't move without knowing if he loves me or not and i don't know how to get him to tell me because he thinks he's hurting me but he doesn't know he's hurting me by not telling the truth and i'm tired of bugging him about the same stuff and i don't know how to feel or what to do?

2006-08-23 18:22:01 · 8 answers · asked by USAF1 3 in Singles & Dating

Ha Ha! Just kidding. My real question is how many times do you see a guy ask this, and how many responses do you think he gets?

2006-08-23 18:21:10 · 10 answers · asked by blamurfen 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 18:21:05 · 17 answers · asked by FALCONKING 5 in Singles & Dating

If a girl were to say that she wants to post her nude pic online, tell me the truth, would you jump to her 360 or website or whatever or would you refrain yourself? Tell the truth...i can smell a lie!

2006-08-23 18:21:00 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex husband does not want to pay child support. However, he is
giving me a fraction of what it would be if it were based on his
income. There is no court order that he is to pay child support. It has always been just between us. I'm asking for more now, but he refuses. Will a judge order him to pay? Will the court set the amount, even if we've agreed on a lower amount?

2006-08-23 18:20:03 · 16 answers · asked by Lady J 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend says that I call every time he lays down to take a nap but I don't call when he stays up. He does not tell me when he is going to lay down and does not tell me when he is going to stay up should I be held accountable if he does not tell me in advance?

2006-08-23 18:20:01 · 5 answers · asked by Toni L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know thats sound dumb but i mean is there a time when you find yourself happy not to have sex as part of yur realationship or will we always fill the way we do now we are married for nearly 30 yr s and we forget sometimes we arent young any more i guess im wooriedthat one day it will all just go away what u think????????

2006-08-23 18:19:17 · 27 answers · asked by Msdeb gee 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-23 18:18:53 · 5 answers · asked by HEY boo boo 6 in Singles & Dating

problums between my husband and me what should i do i dont want to make him choose but im really stressed out about it

2006-08-23 18:18:41 · 12 answers · asked by cherokeeindian 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

stuck out to sea and looking for female to chat with. nothing but guys out here. It'd be nice to talk to a woman for a change.

IM me at wudbiser

2006-08-23 18:17:46 · 6 answers · asked by Ben P 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom is visting me from out of town & usually I'm very careful with my secret single woman behavior & I'm good at hiding stuff....Kinda like my vibrator, which my mom found today on my nightstand when she came home today & I was asleep & she asked me about the vibrator & I said it was my friends who had asked me to hold it because she was traveling & didn't want her mom to find it while she was way because lives with very catholic parents & it was in my purse that I was clearing out & forgot to put it away. Kind of embarrasing but not so much cos I dunno if she bought the story but I wish I could undo the whole mess & yes I'm over 18...So my questions are, How do you think I handled the situation & how would you feel if your parents found anything along those lines in your room???

2006-08-23 18:17:45 · 15 answers · asked by Lolateeny 3 in Singles & Dating

wet your bed at night? why? for how long? what did you do to stop? was the wetting connected to any disturbing emotions or family stress? how would you handle your child's bed wetting? did spanking, threats or humiliation help you? could your parents have done anything better for you? are or were you ashamed of your bed wetting? does Google offer any websites for bed wetters? what's your advice to others?

2006-08-23 18:17:39 · 1 answers · asked by jimrich 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you are joking w/ someone and you tell them to shut up and they say if I shut up - how you gonna get out? how do you respond to that? my comment is I aint in yet but I can be. lol i dont know. I am so confused lol

2006-08-23 18:16:56 · 12 answers · asked by mysterynwaiting 2 in Friends

I was dating this guy for over a year and during the beginning of the relationship he had gotten his ex girlfriend pregnant. Like 6-7 months in, I noticed that he'd been acting strange and I had to pull teeth to get that information out of him. It had been a very stressful and depressing time during my life, I tried to break this off umteen times but he had a hard time letting go. I must say I had been a tower of strength for him during our relationship as he also had other issues dealing with as well. Finally, I gathered the strength to get out of the mess. After no contact for about 3 months now, last evening he called me complaining. Telling me how bad things were with him, he and the girl moved in for the sake of the now 4 month old child (also another child from a previous relationship). In his words "this is torture, I can't live like this anymore", "I can't stand the arguing", "I am not happy". I don't want him back but is listening to him sending a different message?

2006-08-23 18:16:52 · 4 answers · asked by Lady Mandeville 6 in Singles & Dating

I got a filipina 3 years ago she told me sweet sweet words like she will love me 4ever she needs me only me without me she doesnt care about anyother guys. She called me sent me sms even she tried to chat with me reguler. I couldnt trust her properly there in my mind something was working that she is not a good girl at all. When sometimes I became angry with her for her stupid dress & for anyother thing she cried & made some drama she told me through sms or call that she stopped eatting she will not eat who cares etc etc even sometimes tried to threat me she will kill ownself if I go away etc. I tried to talk with her parents & sisters that she is like that. One day made another drama & told me her parents locked her in room told me to wait everything will be fine etc I understood all she said or did eveything was a drama. Relationship had broken she told me she will not get bf she will be alone & she will not change but she got & she changed so I was right about her! Never trust them!

2006-08-23 18:15:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships