I got a filipina 3 years ago she told me sweet sweet words like she will love me 4ever she needs me only me without me she doesnt care about anyother guys. She called me sent me sms even she tried to chat with me reguler. I couldnt trust her properly there in my mind something was working that she is not a good girl at all. When sometimes I became angry with her for her stupid dress & for anyother thing she cried & made some drama she told me through sms or call that she stopped eatting she will not eat who cares etc etc even sometimes tried to threat me she will kill ownself if I go away etc. I tried to talk with her parents & sisters that she is like that. One day made another drama & told me her parents locked her in room told me to wait everything will be fine etc I understood all she said or did eveything was a drama. Relationship had broken she told me she will not get bf she will be alone & she will not change but she got & she changed so I was right about her! Never trust them!
2006-08-23 18:15:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am a filipina and your words hurt me... i know you were hurt by this girl's actions but please keep in mind that this do not give you the right to generalize that all of us are not to be trusted... keep in mind that some people are just rotten regardless of their nationality... i have been hurt by an Indian man (his parents called me undesirable bec im a single mom) but i did not take it against all indian men.. each people are unique and will react differently with every given situation... you are hurting so for now i will excuse this outburst but i hope time will come you will realize that this statement is unjust and real wrong..
2006-08-23 18:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by sen 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Sorry to hear about your bad experience. But it is hardly reflective upon an entire complex social structure such as the Philippines. There are liars and scammers throughout the world. And the Philippines consists of 7,107 islands and eight major Tagalog dialects plus minor languages.
You don't say whether you were actually in the Philippines or whether you met your Filipina abroad, or were introduced to her by "mail order".
The way you describe her, she seems rather trivial and uneducated. Would you buy a car the way you chose your ex-girlfriend?
2006-08-23 18:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U sound as though u have been hurt very badly by this one particular person. But isnt it wrong to be judgemental and make a sweeping satement of all filipina. In any race or nationality, there are a mixture of good and bad people. so its unfair to generalise your criticism. Honestly, filipinas are very nice people who are humble and polite in their own ways. On the hindsight, perhaps u have done some harm to the girl to be treated this way.
2006-08-23 18:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by lanks20032003 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that. I would like to say that every girl has her own character. And the girl who you met was the one who you do not expect. Unfortunately that girls is from Filipino. I think It is not true if we will not trust all the Filipino's girls. I believe there are a lot of girl there nice. Sooo another word is you can find another one, There are still lot of fish in the sea, aren't there ? Don't be upset. Keep trying. Good luck.
2006-08-23 18:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by bingungki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a little racist all people make mistakes but blaming because of race is not cool. with all the drama she gave you think about it you are better off in the long run...she did you a favor.
2006-08-23 18:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am a filipina. Having a failed relationship with ONE filipina does not mean that ALL filipinas are like her. Please don't jump into conclusions and don't generalize, it's not fair. Be mature.
2006-08-23 18:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
You are a ******' cry baby and need to stop blowing this situation out of proportion!
2006-08-23 18:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by missionman1914 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
dude, i didnt get a word you just said...maybe she broke it off cuz listening to u talk gave her a headache. i know readin this does....and this is 3 years ago...MOVE ON!!!
2006-08-24 16:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by af4sguy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋