problums between my husband and me what should i do i dont want to make him choose but im really stressed out about it
2006-08-23 18:18:41 · 12 answers · asked by cherokeeindian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, I think that you need to talk with your husband about your brother in-law. And see what you guys can work out. If your husband is not doing anything about the situation. Then you need to talk to your brother in-law. Your marriage is not worth loosing for someone else living with you!!!!
2006-08-23 18:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your marriage is more important than your brother in law. Tell your husband if he doesn't find a place for his brother to stay, then he can hit the road with him. There shouldn't be a choice, if the guy is causing trouble, then he obviously isn't thankful he has a home.
2006-08-23 18:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What seem to be the problem? It is sound like you are a narrow mind it. Just be happy that your husband happy. This is call love.
Now, if his brother try to make you guys broke up because of your husband irresponsible, then that is a different story. If it is like that, I would of kick him out, regardless of what your husband think. If he doesn't like that let him join his brother as well.
2006-08-23 18:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was just in a same sitituation ,my husband and I were having problems we moved into this house my sister came to visit and stayed 6 months ,no job nothing sleeping all the time didnt help me in house ,became very hateful with my kids and my husband left me because of her ,and she found out and moved out and since things are great .I loved her but she was in the wrong how she acted when here in my home .so It is hard to say something to a family memeber like get out ,but trust me you leave and he will be gone .we have more money now ,my bills are better and our moods are way ,way better .you may try to go somewhere else and somehow let someone tell him you left because of him .I know its very hard .good luck
2006-08-23 18:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by Holly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what you think is best i would have to say. you are married and you would expect it that it would be only you and your husband. if it is causing so many problems talk to your husband about it and how you think it is affecting your relationship. if that doesn't work, speak to his brother and tell him that it is affecting the marriage. also tell your husband that you need your privacy, need to come home and relax and get away from the rest of the world and you cant babysit his brother anymore.
2006-08-23 18:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by Nipps 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 15:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Aurora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll need to sit your husband down and have a talk with him. Let him know the situation at hand. It's hard to get rid of family members but sometimes you have to have to step your foot down.
2006-08-23 18:23:34 · answer #7 · answered by young kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-13 15:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by Banky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is always hell when family moves in, no matter how much you love them..... and they know it!!!!
tell your husband that it isnt working out, and help find the brother-in-law a nice apartment!
2006-08-23 19:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Country boy or city boy?
2016-10-08 20:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋