The other night he came outside my house and played his guitar singing some songs.
Today, he sent me roses to my work place and asked me out.
he also called a close guy friend of mine and asked him to give up on me cos i'd be back by his side.
omg.. he really freaks me out and I just wanna be alone. I have told him clearly "it's over!". we are impossible!
help me pls..
2006-08-23 18:26:40 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go to your moms
2006-08-23 18:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, I've been there before. My ex keeps leaving me texts on my cell and keeps mailing my myspace and leavs messages on my phone singing... GAWD. lol. ok, what you do if he calls you, don't answer. if he leavs a message, don't call back. if he knocks on your door, turn off your lights and shut the windw curtains and pretend no one is home. If you hear him singing to you outside, just don't even go outside to see him, pretend as if he weren't there. if he insuilts any of your boy friends or just boys that are friends, say sorry to your guy friend and don't even yell at your ex for doing so. Ultamately where i'm getting at is just ignore him for a while and enjoy the humor of having somone want you soooooooo bad. :) lol good luck. o, and if he starts threatening you, CALL 911!! I had to do that once because he was trying to break in my house...
2006-08-24 01:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Leni ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel girl! It is scary, if he is your ex then im sure you know him well, if you think he can get carried away and the situation can get out of hand, then a restraining order would not be a bad idea. However if your sure its just puppy love and he will soon get over it, indulge in the fact that he wants you, dont lead him on, just let the feeling of being wanted build your self esteem and confidence!
2006-08-24 01:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by jeri_nunez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly your ex finds you as a pretty good catch and don't wanna leave you alone. During the time you guys were together, try to recall what irritates him or will make him angry. Then you do those things to make him angry and he might just leave you alone after that :>
2006-08-24 01:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by peacelover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His behavior is very close to harassment. If he gives you any further trouble tell him you are going to go to the police. You have the right not to be stalked by this man. You may end up having to consult a lawyer. Sad but true.
2006-08-24 01:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
restrianing order
you unfortunately have hooked up with a very possesive and insecure person
such people do not listen to reason
they wonder why people do not like them a they think thy are doing nothing wrong
their are far too many case of women being hurt and or killed by such idiots
you may want to consider start taking self defense courses and carrying mace
2006-08-24 01:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read your other question so you can "kill two birds with one stone". Make out with the dude that you like infront of your ex. It seems like you made the other guy wait long enough and you can tell him the reason why you've waited so long is because this ex was always buggin you.
Ganbare Yukiko!
2006-08-24 02:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by Static__Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a stalking situation so next time he shows up on your doorstep call the police, if he calls and sends you emails to try to contact you and get you back change your phone number and change your email but make sure that your friends know that but tell them not to tell your ex.
i hope my advice helps good luck
(if all fails just use a restraining order on him)
2006-08-24 01:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by Tyler :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time that he comes over you could soil yourself. Most guys find that quite unbecoming, and leave in a jiffy.
2006-08-24 05:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go over your moms house for a while.Then go to the police and fill a report.
2006-08-24 01:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dare to threat you or what? Just go to police station to apply PPO (Personal Protection Order) by this he couldn't come near you.
2006-08-24 01:33:07 · answer #11 · answered by Phoebe C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋