How should i feel???is it wrong?

Question

I wrote my ex-bf an email telling him he never loved me and he lead my heart on for so long and he lied through out are whole relationship i only did it because i want him to move on from me and i'm miserable without him and he doesn't understand that or how i'm feeling he seems to think i'm always going to be there and i just would love to hear him say he doesn't love me anymore but he won't say it i know it's a bit rushed but it hurts more with me thinking that's how he's feeling because he won't say anything he can say he loves me but he has another girlfriend and i love him i think he's so great but i'm so hurt and depressed over it i think crazy thoughts about myself and i just want it to stop but i can't move without knowing if he loves me or not and i don't know how to get him to tell me because he thinks he's hurting me but he doesn't know he's hurting me by not telling the truth and i'm tired of bugging him about the same stuff and i don't know how to feel or what to do?

Answer 1

First of all sweetie, you seem young to me, not that I am critizing in the least...From my own exeriences you will never be able to make someone else tell you what you want to hear...we simply have to accept the fact that not all people, generally men, will not open up and tell their feelings...and honey if he has another gf already, why let him take up space in your mind and heart when he is not giving you anything in return...I definitely know it is hard, but you will survive...if you have any questions for me personally you can email me through my avatar ok...hang in there...no man is worth feeling so horrible about...there are many men and there is someone out there for you...it may not seem like it right now, but you just need to think of what your feelings are doing to yourself and him not giving you any response is making it worse... try to take some time to yourself and slowly but surely you will be able to move on...take care :)

Answer 2

Ok...This is all you need to know...You don't need to hear him tell you he doesn't love you to know that it's true. If you know in your heart that he doesn't love you and didn't really care for you like you should that should be all you need. He's not going to tell you that and you know why? Because he wants to be able to come back to you and use you when he wants to.
You don't have to hear him say those words to know what the truth is. Get that thru your head and you will be just fine.
It's going to hurt because moving on isn't easy and you are putting a lot of the blame on yourself. You can't do that anymore. Love yourself more than him and things will get better.
Good luck.

Answer 3

COME ON!!!!.. I'm sure U are a lovely woman, kind, charming, smart.. There's no reason to feel miserable... by the opposite.. feel happy cause U get rid of that jerk... Just look around U... there must be a lot of guys trying to get just a smile from U.. COME ON!!! this world is waiting for such a pretty smile.

Answer 4

You said he has a new girlfriend. Then does it really matter if he still has feelings for you or not? He has moved on with his life and now you should too. Find someone that can give you as much love as you can give them.

Best of luck.

Answer 5

ex is all I hear move on and forget a liar who is soon gonna cheat on his new gf no offense but are you sure he didn't cheat on you?

Answer 6

JUST TAKE SOME TIME... LEAVE HIM ALONE AND IF IT WAS MEANT TO BE HE WILL BE BACK... IF NOT IT IS BETTER TO KNOW NOW....LIFE IS TO SHORT TO BE UNHAPPY...THAT IS NOT WHAT REAL LOVE IS ABOUT....
THERE IS SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE....

Answer 7

if he has another girlfriend, then obviously he doesn't love you.my advice would be to move on.

Answer 8

if he loved you, he would with you, not someone else