Family & Relationships - 22 August 2006

I have been with my boyf for over a decade now. When we first met, he introduced me to a lot of people, many were his exs, he was still friendly to a few - it never bothered me. But as they moved on with their lifes, We moved away and started a family ourselfs, so i presumed that he was starting to move on himself.

But today, he saw two of his exs shopping, not that i recognised them, he turned to me and pointed to them, telling did you see who that was? on the first ex he saw, i said i knew and i didnt care. He said 'look theres my other, i so hate her boyfriend'.

Baffled what he was on about! i turned around and looked 'who' i replied, then he said it was his ex. I was like 'so'? your with me now.'

He went on about her new boyfriend. I was getting angry. So i told him straight, it was the second time he had pointed one of his exs to me, 'what is it about you and your exs today, can't you get over them or something?'
He said i was being mean and should apologise

2006-08-22 03:20:46 · 26 answers · asked by lonely as a cloud 6 in Singles & Dating

he's married with 2 kids for almost 10 yrs. the affair with the gal has lasted for bout 3 years so far and despite the fact that the wife knows about it. he's a teacher and he met the gal in school. because of this gal he lost a rank at work. and havin to face much of the colleagues' gossips. he comes from a traditional chinese family and believes that divorce will affect the whole family apart from he n his wife. so wat is he thinkin when he's stil havin affair wit the gal? and risking divorce with his wife

2006-08-22 03:20:24 · 23 answers · asked by ying y 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what are some good tips for me to do to or with my boyfriend in the bedroom or where eva the mood strikes, positions tricks etc ?

2006-08-22 03:19:22 · 9 answers · asked by sensual 3 in Singles & Dating

Every time I give by Basset Hound a bath, she smells weird and the other dogs make fun of her... Is there a special shampoo for dogs....

2006-08-22 03:18:35 · 6 answers · asked by hog_wild 1 in Singles & Dating

i am so much wanting opinion on wether i should have a wedding pr just go in front of the justice of the peace i would honestly like to do both but i would like other opinions

2006-08-22 03:18:25 · 16 answers · asked by skyppolar_green 2 in Weddings

I do stuff for my family, his boxers get all up in a bunch, But when his family needs help he never tells them no. I confront him about it and it leads into a bigger argument. What should I do. Tell his family or tell him. Give him a choice or do more for my family to piss him off more.

2006-08-22 03:18:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 20 years old and prefer a more mature woman

2006-08-22 03:18:06 · 2 answers · asked by Blade 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 03:17:33 · 8 answers · asked by Appolnia_76 2 in Singles & Dating

We broke up before because she had cheated on me, then i took her back and she swore she would never do it again. But i just feel i cant trust her anymore. Should i continue with the relationship even though i dont trust her 30% of the time?

2006-08-22 03:17:33 · 14 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-22 03:16:48 · 18 answers · asked by a j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just found out that my husband has a friendship with a girl and her family for over 20 years. We have separted and he is spending time with her and her family. He claims he feels comfort with them and that he is not cheating on me with her. I asked him to introduce me to them but he refuses. Therefore, I believe that something is going on between him and his so called best friend and thats why I cant meet them.

2006-08-22 03:14:49 · 77 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have loved this man for over a year. Its been excrutiating being with him in the same place and not being able to tell him I love him.

I am about to move to another state and I dont know if I should take the cowards way out and tell him before I move. Everyone around us thinks we act like such a couple, strangers ask us if we are married or dating.
The worst thing is I have tried being with other people, and they just dont do it for me. He is constantly on my mind, I tried hating him, and that didnt help.

PLEASE HELP

2006-08-22 03:14:25 · 26 answers · asked by slick ngwana 2 in Singles & Dating

is it normal for a guy to spend moe time with his friends than his girfrien of 3 years?
is it normal behaviout for a boyfriend of 3 years to not introduce u to his friends and family
is it normal behaviour for a boyfriend of three years to not bring u around his area
is it normal for a boy friend of three yeaRS to not be reliable always has excuses to not talk to me on the phone and only sees me once a month what the heck should i do leave or stay?
i tried talking but i feel like i am nagging and being repetive and i am tired of repeating myself

2006-08-22 03:13:19 · 35 answers · asked by Cat 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

n he was everything i wanted.except that he never contacted me to make plans with me but he said dat it was just coz he wasnt a fone person n he also said that im abit clingy,but how could i of been clingy i only ever foned him to make plans to see him coz he never foned me.Anyway the 1day we had a fight coz my friends said he was gona cheat n i didnt believe them but he thought i did n its not that i didnt trust him its that i wasnt sure how he felt bout me coz he never told me or spoke to me bout those tings so i worried n then after the fight i left n didnt speak to him in over a week n i didnt hear from him either then the one saturday, i foned him at 11am and asked to see him n he said he;d let me know and he only let me knw at 5pm.n da whole tym we werent talking i felt umwnted and unipreciated.So i met up wit my guy friend n he was comfortn me n we ended up kissn n me n my bf broke up im heart brockn coz i made a mistake n the worst is i found out my bf was gona dump me anyway.

2006-08-22 03:13:03 · 11 answers · asked by cutiestnowgurl 2 in Singles & Dating

client? distribute the video as well? does it happen? would that be breaking the law?

2006-08-22 03:12:58 · 9 answers · asked by jeremy k 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi!
I have been married for 9 years & this may it'll be 10. We went out for 4 1/2 years before we got married. We are more like roomates & have zero sex life, and I am not in love with him anymore. We have 2 girls & they are why I hang on. Our fighting I feel has affected our 5 year old girl. I feel like I am doing the girls a diservice & myself because I am so miserable. I have never been on my own & am scared. I just want some peace. We have no communication unless we talk about the girls, or to tell one another if we are going somewhere. I work very part time & would want my girls to live with me, but how I would support them, I don't know. Opinions are welcomed.

2006-08-22 03:12:19 · 21 answers · asked by txshelly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you found out that a member of your family had done something illegal, would you call the police, or assist in the investigation if you had found evidence? Or, would you stay quiet? Why or why not?

2006-08-22 03:11:15 · 6 answers · asked by mightymite1957 7 in Family

I was wearing a long sleeve blouse n my coleague smelt my perfume n said it was nice n then at once he his nose touched my arm. I told him to know his limits n he said he was sorry. I want to tell my hubby coz i dont keep any thing from him, but i also know that if i do he is gonna lose it n will hit this guy.........so wht do i do???????

2006-08-22 03:10:04 · 24 answers · asked by reality7 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy so much, there was a time wen we broke up and now we chat through sms and all but everytime i see and talk to him afterwards i wish didnt say wat i said even if i mean to joke and in the end i sound off.
i dont know wat to do should i just keep quite when ever i see him. but still like him

2006-08-22 03:08:50 · 5 answers · asked by babes4life 1 in Singles & Dating

so i hear everyone has a soulmate. Has anyone found that person? The older i get the more i feel it doesnt exist. Though i have looked at people and felt something with out even talking or knowing them.

2006-08-22 03:08:50 · 50 answers · asked by john 3 in Singles & Dating

hey,

i'm a 15-year-old teen who until a year ago i was extremely sheltered. then my abusive dad divorced my mom. anyway, i need some major social help. i go to a private school. i have plenty of friends there, most of them are dormers, and they live in differant states. i'm a day student. basically, i need to get a life. i'm a pretty cool person if i say so myself. i'm not ugly, kinda athletic and i play basketball, not stupid, i get B averages, i wrote this. a little immature, i like punk rock music. i'm a pretty charismatic type. i don't have anything much to be made fun of except my miniscule social life and short attention span.
i'm learning to skateboard and play electric guitar. i've had 3 girlfriends before. how should i go about meeting local people to hang out with?

P.S. i'm a straight guy, and i'm 6 feet tall, if that helps anything.

2006-08-22 03:08:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-22 03:08:08 · 6 answers · asked by maszzi 1 in Friends

I took my son to his first day of pre-k. There was one mother there who looked like she had just rolled out of bed and brought her child to school. She had a tank top on with no bra, some nasty little shorts on and her hair looked like it hadn't been washed in a week. I think parents owe it to thir children not to humiliate them. I mean kids are mean...I can only imagine what kids might have said to that child about the way his mother looked. She kept bending over and you could see her boobs! What is with people these days?! Anyway...that was last Thursday. Today I see the same woman, in the same tank top and shorts looking the same way!

2006-08-22 03:08:01 · 9 answers · asked by Mommy of 2 Boys 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-22 03:06:58 · 54 answers · asked by white_snake 1 in Family

why do guys insist on getting their on way if they dont get their own way they get upset why is that?
why does it have to be their way or no way?

2006-08-22 03:06:18 · 19 answers · asked by Cat 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

For instance, he thinks is very intimate, but actually you would never tell him a little secret. And now, it's so boring when you meet him or receive e-mails from him, that this had to end! what would you do????

2006-08-22 03:05:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and feels like it never last

2006-08-22 03:05:21 · 15 answers · asked by awsome_sweet_angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me & my sis in law share a common friend.we all r girls.since 2.5 months me n my friend hve become v close.we share almost everything.My sis in law calls her & whatever she has in her mind she wud tell her but she wil say I(simi) have told her or asked her to do that.i mean she wil always use my name that simi has asked to do that or simi has told to do so.etc etc.my friend tels me everything.but my friend trusts me.now im confused whether i shud speak to my sis in law abt it?if i do then my friend wil b in trouble that she is telling me everything.i dont want to spoil her name in front of my sis in law.what do i do?

2006-08-22 03:05:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i left my country, my family, my kids. i am now divorced and my husband got custody :( , i gues coz i wasnt there and couldnt get a lawyer. i love him so much, but he gets upset, sometimes mad when i am depressed, when i cry..i dont understand. we talked for years on yahoo before we met. he is everything i want, but its like he has this wall up when it comes to serious stuff. i feel so bad, so depressed, i need him so much. i dont know what to do. someone help me. leave your id if you want to chat and help, thanks

2006-08-22 03:04:48 · 29 answers · asked by woman 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-22 03:04:25 · 12 answers · asked by Skip 1 in Marriage & Divorce