n he was everything i wanted.except that he never contacted me to make plans with me but he said dat it was just coz he wasnt a fone person n he also said that im abit clingy,but how could i of been clingy i only ever foned him to make plans to see him coz he never foned me.Anyway the 1day we had a fight coz my friends said he was gona cheat n i didnt believe them but he thought i did n its not that i didnt trust him its that i wasnt sure how he felt bout me coz he never told me or spoke to me bout those tings so i worried n then after the fight i left n didnt speak to him in over a week n i didnt hear from him either then the one saturday, i foned him at 11am and asked to see him n he said he;d let me know and he only let me knw at 5pm.n da whole tym we werent talking i felt umwnted and unipreciated.So i met up wit my guy friend n he was comfortn me n we ended up kissn n me n my bf broke up im heart brockn coz i made a mistake n the worst is i found out my bf was gona dump me anyway.
2006-08-22 03:13:03 · 11 answers · asked by cutiestnowgurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And i made a mistake and i know nothing i say will make it ok and it was the 1st time id ever cheated and i feel really bad even thou the kiss ment nothing im hurting coz my bf dont want me anymore and it seems like he never did and ill never cheat again im just not that type of gurl but now im bad coz i did... i messed everything up and its all my fault...pls i need advice
2006-08-22 03:16:42 · update #1
You need to get over your ex-boyfriend!! If he really liked/loved you he would of wanted to make plans to see you at least everyday but he never! He doesn't sound like he even liked you. Get over this guy and find somebody better who can treat you right! You don't deserve to be hurt and sad over a guy. He should of paid more attention to you and you wouldn't of cheated on him! Its his fault and his loss!
2006-08-22 03:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me just point out that..you said it yourself..your ex boyfriend was going to break up with you anyways. I don't agree with you kissing that guy but don't beat yourself up about this break up because it was going to happen regardless if you had kissed the guy or not. You need to try and get your mind occupied with other things and start to move on. I think that if he barely ever phoned you he just wasn't that into you because if he had he would have sacrificed using the phone even if he wasn't a "phone person". Keep your eyes open because it seems that while you are in this state of longing for the past you may be walking right past you.
2006-08-22 03:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, none of this was your fault. Everything that happened was because of him. You are to blame in a small way because you did not talk to him when all of this started. Forget about his lame-*** as he was not even man enough to make you feel appreciated. You deserve better and obviously this guy can't give that to you. He gave you the signs that he was not interested but you would not see it. The thing is if you had to confront him when it started maybe things would have turn out differently. But like I always say, things happen for a reason and obviously this was not meant to be. So forget about him and move on, it won't be easy but at least you will be happier. As you deserve to be happy and loved. Best of luck amigo
2006-08-22 03:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that it seems like this guy was your everything, but believe there are lots of other guys out there. this guy may have been pretty awesome, but the fact that he never called or showed interest is a big sign he's immature. In time the pain will subside but I know it hurts. no one likes to have their heart broken. you guy friend likes you and whether it meant nothing you are obviously attracted at some level. talk to him and good luck
2006-08-22 03:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by JJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl trust me. He isn't worth freakin over. you will definately find someone out there who will sweep you off ur feet and will pick up a damn phone and call u cuze that shows that he wants to spend time with you and this guy doesn't seem like he does. so i would go get ur best girl friends go to the mall or somewheres and just have fun, scope out potential mates and just live a little u know.
2006-08-22 03:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by sammylo03 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get over him he was never into you if a guy likes you he would call and find time to see you and not have all the excuses in the world why he can't so relax you and him breaking up was the best thing for you and he only needed a reason to break up with you she be happy and let him go and let it burn
2006-08-22 03:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he was just using you to show everyone that he could easily get you. Dont sweat on it. Calm down and relax and im sure you will find someone else to love you more than he had.
2006-08-22 03:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait deep breath, now another. You'll get over this. Just take each day as it comes and find another. You sound like a lovely person and you will get someone who is lovely to you as well.
2006-08-22 03:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by smutmonkey71 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it little teenager
These relationships are temporary
When you grow up...you have more adult relationships that are more mature
2006-08-22 03:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok what is your question you need to ask something
2006-08-22 03:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by Eddie S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋