We broke up before because she had cheated on me, then i took her back and she swore she would never do it again. But i just feel i cant trust her anymore. Should i continue with the relationship even though i dont trust her 30% of the time?
2006-08-22 03:17:33 · 14 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No you can't have a fulfilling relationship without trust.
2006-08-22 03:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by Leapling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends. You trust her 70% but can you rebuild the 30% lost ? Is she doing the right things now ? For you to trust her again means she needs to be an open book to you until. If she is not doing the right thing then dont bother. You will only drag yourself down with the constant concern if your being lied to or not. But then again why go through all this for someone who cheated on you ? If she really loved you she wouldn't have cheated.
2006-08-22 10:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you no or very little trust in a relationship, it won't work. A healthy relationship is normally built on trust and respect. If she has cheated on you, how can you be sure that she won't do it again. I am with my boyfriend and I would not even think about kissing another guy because I love him and he is the only guy I want and I want to share everything with. She might not see you the same way so you might want to re-consider if you don't deserve better?
2006-08-22 10:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by violet b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying 'when theres no trust theres no relationship' the longer you stay with her the more the trust issue will eat you up ie paranoia/possessiveness. I would suggest ending the relationship and moving on as you will have a better chance of finding someone you WILL trust. Good luck :)
2006-08-22 11:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it must be difficult to trust her again if she has broken yr trust coz A relationship is based on love and trust, so if u don't have those 2 as the foundation then every thing else is going to be shaky..... so u decide now before its goes any further. If u trust her then give her yr 100% or not!!!! its up to u.
2006-08-22 10:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by reality7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen I know it is easier to just keep this girl around and not go through the hassle of dating or finding someone new. I mean you have to put yourself out there and maybe even face being rejected by some ladies before you find the right one.
But, if you don't trust her...the trust isn't just going to come back. Every time she is late or says she needs to work late or go see her friend or family...in the back of your mind you will be thinking...is she fooling around again. no matter how hard to try not to...it will always be there.
Listen...the world is over 50% woman...ther are more than enough to go around...go find that "one girl that will always be true to you".
2006-08-22 10:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by some1_on_the_side 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really believe that your girlfriend loves you then maybe it would not be such a bad idea for you to give her a chance. Let her prove to you that she is trust worthy, but be cautious. If later you do find that you trust her you might find that you do still love her. But if you can not give her your trust after so long then maybe you both are better off apart.
2006-08-22 10:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Lelia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u dont trust ur girlfriend, whats d point of dating her. Besides, she cheated on u before. On the otherhand, try to sort things out with her and if u still have the feelings that u dont trust her, move on with your life----------leave her.
2006-08-22 10:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by teemah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you sound just like me. You will never be able to trust her again. Its best if you ended the relationship on good terms
2006-08-22 10:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by john 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called Lust Love. Not True Love! True Love you will never ever have a doubt in your mind this girl is faithful and true to you. Lust Love is just the fact of having someone there.
Best to move one and when True Love comes you'll know and you'll feel happier than you are now!
2006-08-22 11:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋