Should I tell him or not? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

I have loved this man for over a year. Its been excrutiating being with him in the same place and not being able to tell him I love him.

I am about to move to another state and I dont know if I should take the cowards way out and tell him before I move. Everyone around us thinks we act like such a couple, strangers ask us if we are married or dating.
The worst thing is I have tried being with other people, and they just dont do it for me. He is constantly on my mind, I tried hating him, and that didnt help.

PLEASE HELP

Answer 1

Just tell him, "You know that I'm about to move, but I have something to tell you. I really like you. A lot. I understand if you don't want to have a long-distance relationship with me, but I couldn't hold it in any longer. Just keep in touch, okay?"

Answer 2

aww man... you waited this long? you should tell him.... I know you're about to move, and you won't be able to do anything much about it, but you should. If I've learned nothing else, it's never stupid to let someone know that you love them. I have a girl that I don't live anywhere near... the distance was something that really ripped us apart, but I can't deny loving her, and we got to where we didn't talk to each other for a long time, and I was really just wanting her to know that in spite of what happened, I do still love her, and care about what's going on in her life. I finally got the chance a couple of days ago, and it's been a relief of sorts, I didn't have that in the back of my head. Tell him that you love him, that you hope something works itself out because you are going to be missing him.

Answer 3

Sit him down in a quiet place and talk to him. Be honest when you tell him how you feel and let him know that he is not obligated to reflect those feelings back towards you. The thing is that he should not feel pressurised into a relationship. So tell him that you just wanted to let him know and what he makes out of it is entirely up to him. But you thought that he deserved to know. If that does not knock him off his feet, then I don't know what will. Best of luck amigo

Answer 4

Girl, life is too short, Tell him. Then he will at least know how you feel about him. He may feel the same way about you. And he may want to tell you the same thing but is afraid just the way that you are. I say go for it!!!!!

Answer 5

I really think if he hasnt said he loves you by now he probably doesnt so go ahead and move. Dont volunteer this unless he asks. It can kill things with scared young men. Older ones wont be so worried about commitment.

Answer 6

This depends on whether or not you are friends and where your personal relationship is with this man. I had a very good friend of mine, I've loved him for years as well, and I couldn't take it any longer and told him where he stood in my heart.... He's now my sole relationship, and I'm his... so, you have to be honest with yourself and communicate your feelings as best you can and in a mature manner. I'll pray for you and your situation!

Answer 7

TELL HIM!!!!!

If you don't you will never know what would of happened! He could also feel the same way for you and be too scared to tell you. But don't get your hopes up for this because he could also say that he doesn't feel the same way for you. But you need to tell him!!

Answer 8

well,what have u been waiting for?its not wrong to love someonwe,rather its such a wonderful gift u can ever give someone...

just go ahead n tell him how strongly u feel for him n get to know his feelings too....trust me one sided love is no love at all.....just go n get him before its too late.....good luck!!

Answer 9

You should definitely tell him, don't ever take the cowards way out on something like this.

Answer 10

If you are both unattached, just tell him. At best he feels the same way; at worst it is still flattering.

If either of you is married or otherwise attached, keep it to yourself.