I do stuff for my family, his boxers get all up in a bunch, But when his family needs help he never tells them no. I confront him about it and it leads into a bigger argument. What should I do. Tell his family or tell him. Give him a choice or do more for my family to piss him off more.
2006-08-22 03:18:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are right. Keep doing it, if he keeps arguing with you about it, leave him.
2006-08-22 03:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are sounding like enemies, instead of a united couple. Why would do deliberatly do things to piss him off? There is obviously a lack of communication with the two of you.
First, there is nothing wrong with helping out each other's family. But, you have to make sure it doesn't conflict with YOUR family. (you and him) Make sure when you help your family, you are not putting them over your husband. And vice versa. You guys should help each other's family out together, quit acting like babies.
2006-08-22 10:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god, my boyfriend totally does that. What you need to do is point it out to him that he gets mad when when you help your family and he always does everything for his family.
You family is important and will always be there for you. Tell him to back off that point because you won't tolerate his behavior about it.
I did that with my boyfriend and, while he won't help me when I'm dealing with my family, he doesn't complain anymore either. The jerk!, lol
2006-08-22 10:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by **Shannen** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep tabs on who does what and how many times who helped who.Just help those that need help, who cares what side of the family it is.the whole point of helping, is to help.
2006-08-22 10:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋