I'm feeling kinda tired to always be sweet when he seems cold, he still talks to me but mostly cold and distant, he's not easy person to hang out with, unhappy, easily get bored, he has nervous energy, he has problem to relax.. he has to do something or he gets crazy. Relationhip takes two.. so i think it's not fair if i have to be patient all the time.. when i'm out of patient and upset i give him silent treatment and he hates that! it's just i need sometimes to just figure it out myself and when i get better then usually he gets back at me with his scary anger (verbally) and finally when we agree to end the fighting, he has gone through the process of really feel normal again by backing off, being cold, busy and distant.. kind of showing me that he's scared to be close to me again til he feels better.. but until when?? sometimes i just can't wait too long and be always sweet if he doesn't seem to care! I just kinda tired to go back and forth with this situation.. what should i do?
2006-08-21
11:15:47
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Nadia Miller
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Singles & Dating