My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months now. We are both in our early 20's. He stays at my house just about every night and he is absolutely wonderful!!!! :) I have been in some really s**ty relationships in the past and he is definately a keeper! Even my friends and family say so. I realised that I love him about a month ago but i haven't told him for fear i will freak him out. Guys do that sometimes. When is it ok to tell him???? Is it too soon? Please help.... Thanx! :)
2006-08-21 11:17:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's relly Mr. Right, you don't have to worry about him freaking out. You both should be on the same page. If he's not, He's not Mr. Right & you don't want to be with Mr. Right Now....trust me.
You may think this guy is better then the others but 4 months is really too soon to tell. After a year his true colors will come through. If you two are not on the same exact page now, you definitly don't want to waste any more time & heart ache.
Break it off. Wait for the Man God intended to love you with all of his heart. You'll will be so much happier, you have no idea!
2006-08-23 06:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by FireCrkR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait for him to tell you first. But, if after a LONG while u see that he isnt going to then u can tell him. Maybe he is waiting on you for fear that you will freak out! lol. You never know what men are thinking!
Congrads on finding you a good man!
2006-08-21 11:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Hilllbilly_gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes let him know exactly how you feel. He could feel the same way and wondering what should i do. True love is hard to find, I thought i had it one time only to find out it was convenient not love. I found a twenty year old beauty and I'm thirty five i tell her i love her everyday multiple times so i say yes tell him.
2006-08-21 11:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by scott c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think when u are sitting down talking to him one evening try to tell him in a certain way maybe not exactly straight out but kinda playfully. like maybe u could say, honey theres this girl i know, and she has been going out just as long as we have, and this guy is a lot like you, so would the guy be offended or freak out if the girl told him that she has fallen in love with him? maybe try that. he should get it. and then u will know.
2006-08-21 11:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Carlino 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
4 months is kinda soon too tell someone that you him. But you need to do whats right for you, if u feel like telling him you love him then by all means do so, if its in your heart.... Good luck.
2006-08-21 11:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by ur1_badgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until he does something really nice or you go out on a romantic date and then say i love what you did for me it was really nice or just say i love you there is really no right time to say it what you really are scared of is if he will say it back or not and you know what if he is there every night there is not doubt that he loves you go for it!
2006-08-21 11:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by jdsb121305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait a little longer......becuase guys DO freak out about those three little words.
2006-08-21 11:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the time to tell him
2006-08-21 11:29:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋