How do i get my boyfriend to talk to me? When i first asked i got answers. I used them and they worked, but now he doesn't even e-mail me anymore. What should I do?
2006-08-21 11:19:52 · 18 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relationships should definitely be a two way street. You can't just always be the one trying to make it work. Maybe it is time for you to part ways with him and find someone that can give you the care you need and deserve. Who knows, if you do leave him, it might even be an eye opener for him and he may realize what he lost. If he wants you back, then he'll need to be the one to put in the work this time (that is of course if you're still in market and not already enjoying your baggage free life) . Good luck.
2006-08-21 11:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by Steve M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's not your boyfriend anymore on his part.Maby it's time you took a look at the big picture and allowed him time to know what he wants.And in the mean time you can work on you getting your house in order so if he comes back you will be ready.And if he doesn't you move on there's more than one man in the world.
2006-08-21 18:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by endigogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend. You shouldn't have to make your boyfriend talk to you. That's kind of something that comes with going out. Find someone who will treat you right- you deserve better.
2006-08-21 18:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too much work. If he doesn't want to talk to you find someone who does. Do not stick around and continue to be hurt by this guy. He needs to put in just as much effort as you are.
2006-08-21 18:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying to get in contact with him. Until you find out something. If it doesnt work dump him. Write a letter, leave messages. If he doesnt want to talk to you. He is not worth spitting on.
2006-08-21 18:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by Hockey_Freak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why put in so much effort into someone who obviously doesn't feel the same way about you?
Forget everything you've been told here, its time to throw in the towel.
I'm sorry.
2006-08-21 18:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by piteous_wight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he a virgo? i dated a virgo, and they are good in a relationship for a few weeks, then they just shut off. they don't see a reason to pursue you now that they have you. we ended up breaking up.
you could try confronting him and ask him why he doesn't talk.
good luck...after my virgo and i broke up, my ex bf and i got back together. we really are meant to be. i just didn't see it. so don't miss out on someone b/c your bf won't talk to you...
2006-08-21 18:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by lady of the piano 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't have a good reason for not being able to contact you by either email, cellphone texting or myspace ... then I'd say it's time to move along...
2006-08-21 18:26:33 · answer #8 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email him a date wen u guys want to im eachother and give it at least a week before u guys talk cause he probly only checks his email once a week.
2006-08-21 18:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by K-Low 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but if he's not talking to you, than he's not really your boyfriend anymore.
2006-08-21 18:25:28 · answer #10 · answered by renee1724 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋