he bipolar and has the disorder where he can hear voices in his head and he wont take his meds so he takes it out on me and really puts me down and gets in my face and in the past has hurt me physcly and i would like to know if there is anything i can do to make it better for him so he can see that treating me this way wont make his problem go away
2006-08-21 11:20:37 · 11 answers · asked by vicki g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hunny, get out, my husband is bipolar also I had to leave after 18 years of marriage, there is nothing you can do. Please be careful and call the police if it gets worse, I am worried about you.
If he doesn't take his meds he won't get better, i don't know how much you know about this disorder,maybe you can talk to a family member of his and they can hospitalize him. Please GOD take care of this young lady. You can email at any time I will help as much as I can. Please take care of yourself.
2006-08-21 11:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing *you* can do if he doesn't acknowledge his problem. He NEEDS to take the medication to feel better; if he doesn't, nothing else will help - it's not a character flaw that he has, it's a medical condition. If I were you, I would be looking for a different husband; people like him can be dangerous to others, and he will hurt you again and again. Unless you don't mind getting hurt - leave soon.
2006-08-21 11:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him take his med's. If not you can always us a "power of attorney to have him admitted to the state under a 5150 section article in which the subject is a danger to him/her self and others and will be detained up to 3 days to be evaluated. Hence for he will be forced to take his medication and the state will have a record of his condition and if it happens again you can still use a power of attorney.. Good luck.
2006-08-21 11:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by skawp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring that mutha fucka to church!! That's where he need to be. If he don't stop, then take some time away from him because it will only get worse. I think that is the only way he will realize that he needs to take his medication and not take all that out on you. Don't talk to him crazy though because he might hurt you. I'm not trying to scare you, but its the truth. Just try to get away from him when he starts throwing a fit.
2006-08-21 11:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by sr04model 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wouldn't take his meds and is hurting you, call the police and have his *** put in jail. If you don't protect yourself, you could end up in the ER at best. He has to realize that he is has a problem and deal with it.
2006-08-21 11:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres not mutvh u can do but just sit down and talk to him about it... and if he luvs u and if he loves his family then he'll do sumthin about the anger manigment problem cuz if he where to ever git to mad he could end up dewin sumthin that he'll regret the rest of his like
2006-08-21 12:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by staci lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he takes his medication all the time, discuss his temper with his doctor, maybe he can help the both of you? Please, make sure he takes his med's, its important.
2006-08-21 11:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by yvonne p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him go back to the doctor. if he wont i would leave him the only person that can help him is himself
2006-08-21 11:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by Joanne L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if he would be willing to go to anger management
2006-08-21 11:26:52 · answer #9 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. Why would you want to be with someone like this?
2006-08-21 11:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋