Now I lost 30 pounds and he wants to go out with me. What should I do?
2006-08-21 11:11:48 · 19 answers · asked by Tina R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go out with him if you still like him. at worse, you will find he is someone who doesn't deserve your attention.
2006-08-21 11:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys who like you just because of how you look aren't worth your time. Definetly find out why he suddenly changed his mind, if he gives you an answer like "I didn't like you then." Stop and go no farther. Of course, it's all about what you want in a guy, do you want a guy who will love you for you or one that just wants a good time? Personally I'd go with the first option. Do what you feel is right.
p.s. Congrats on the weight loss!!!
2006-08-21 18:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can say from personal experience that if you don't give him the time of day he will try harder and harder to get you to go out with him. Let him chase you, then when he catches you, treat him the same way he has treated you. He sounds like the type of guy who just wants a pretty girl on his arm, and doesn't care about what type of person is inside. He doesn't deserve your loyalty or affection. Find someone who likes you for you, and not just for what you look like.
2006-08-21 18:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by vegaschic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that he did not like your initial stature that was why he did not mind you. Now that you're more presentable, he has come back. I think you should accept him. He has been instrumental to your loss of extra ponds which you did not need anyway. This may turn out as your best relationship in life.
2006-08-21 18:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by golfman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you lost weight just for him and now he notices you, then you should be happy now. Enjoy and see what he wants from you. Better be careful though so you won't end up a crying baby.
2006-08-21 18:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by SeriouslyInLove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go **** himself. He's obviously just into looks. If you started dating, you'd fall in love and he'd just go after a better looking piece of tail when it came along. This isn't Shallow Hal, it's real life
2006-08-21 18:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by libraesque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u should not have 2 lose wieght for poeple u
sholud do it 4 u go out with some one who like u for u
2006-08-21 18:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by princess12i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave that little boy alone. If he really liked you he would have asked you out b4 30lbs and all. He is just an a** hole who is to much into looks.
2006-08-21 18:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by gismo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT GO OUT WITH HIM!
If he didnt want you when you were a little heavier then he dont need you now. You deserve better. Just put your tight jeans, low cut blouse on and let him EAT HIS HEART OUT GF!!!!!
You go girl!!!!!!
2006-08-21 18:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by Hilllbilly_gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to kiss your asssssssssssssssssss. i had a guy who used to bully me at school, once i'd left and i looked good he tried it on, i told him where to get off those type of guys are shallow. only want you for one thing.
2006-08-21 18:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by muffinplattsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋