I just don't know what to do. Cuz theirs this guy I love. And he loves me too right? And I feel that theirs something wrong. I don't feel right. I really don't. -_-,
2006-08-21 11:09:56 · 37 answers · asked by Helena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe its just time you two went different ways.
2006-08-21 11:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by Zack 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not be ready to date right now. You may be expressing some dislike towards this particular guy right now. Certain in the idea you do not feel right that is your right choice. Let him down easy and put the blame on you. Tell him in a nice way that you want more time alone or you just want him to see other girls and you are not ready right now. Do not date another boy right away.
Wait until you see he has moved on. You may need time to work on yourself and your needs to be a great woman be hind a great man. I havent found Mr. Right but I read and hope to be ready
2006-08-21 11:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the guy. Tell him your feelings and maybe you two can figure it out. Nothing will clear up until words are said. Do you want to continue feeling like this? I didn't think so. Communication is key. Good luck.
2006-08-21 11:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should always follow your first thoughts and your gut instinct! If it doesn't feel right then maybe it's not meant to be. Only you know whats best good luck!
P.S
Make sure your certain, you don't want to lose a good guy!
2006-08-21 11:18:28 · answer #4 · answered by not_your_average*chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think that something is really wrong, then there really is. Women tends to have a high frequency when it comes to such thing.
If you still want to patch things up, then try to confront him. Otherwise, just move on and find someone else. I always say to myself that if it isn't him, then there is still someone far better than him.
2006-08-21 11:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by SeriouslyInLove 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should really go with your gut on this one... even if you don't understand it. Take it really slow and see if you can figure it out.
In my life I've gotten *twinges* when a guy was cheating, married, abusive, controlling, jealous, bipolar and bisexual. The list goes on. Couldn't always put my finger on it... but... there you go. Oh... the most disturbing one was the child molester. You never know. Trust your gut.
Love does not make everything perfect... trust me on that one.
2006-08-21 11:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by thegirlwholovedbrains 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You MUST follow your gut on this feeling. Your gut will not lie or steer you wrong. Trust your instincts...they are there for a reason. No matter what "logic" anyone uses to discount your feelings, ALWAYS trust your gut instinct!
2006-08-21 11:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are difficult because two people can never see eye to eye on everything. One person wants one thing and the other wants something different. The best advice i can give you is:
Don't force something where it dosen't fit!
2006-08-21 11:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by jazzle151 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We will need more information before we can answer. I generally don't rely upon my own feelings, but I'm a man, and women seem to be more intuitive about a man. I wish I could say something more helpful. Try telling us something more specific, and maybe we can guide you better.
2006-08-21 11:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by robertspraguejr 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust yourself. Listen to family and friend's opinions. If your having a bad feeling, then you're having it for a reason. It will be easier to get out of the relationship now. If you wait, it will only be harder on yourself.
2006-08-21 11:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by panda9386 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The safest way to find out is to ask. Just ask him if there is something he thinks you need to talk about. I he says no then keep a very close watch and "snoop" in a way.
2006-08-21 11:16:10 · answer #11 · answered by gismo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋