I still love my ex-boyfriend very much. It's been a year since we broke up, and I thought I would be over him by now. We have a little girl together so we have to talk to each other. We have both done hurtful things to each other in the past, but I think thats because we were both very immature. I want to be with him, because there's no one else like him in the world. How can I make him see past everything that has happened between us, so that we can finally be a family? I know he still loves me, but he's pride gets in the way. Please help me. I just want to be happy....
2006-08-21 11:07:14 · 8 answers · asked by ur1_badgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all that was a good amount of healing time for you two.You needed that so you can see what's next for you.And it's not in making him see anything,it's allowing him time to heal now so he can have clearity in the relationship to.Just because you feel you've healed and can move on it does'nt mean he has.He may need a little more time than you.Patience is the key here.You have to show him that you care now but being patienct.And allowing him to make his own choices.Remember"If you love someone set it free,if it comes back to you,it's ment to be."Then if he comes back he comes on his own and things will fall back into place.
2006-08-21 11:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by endigogirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My question may seem a little harsh but I am just wondering: do you love the idea of being a family and you want him back because there is no one else ?
If this is the case then you had better think long and hard before you take the next step...
2006-08-21 11:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first think about why u guys broke up dnt just try 2 get back with him because of your daughter because if thats the only reason then she would be hurt in the long run honey there is someone out there for u maybe your just not looking because you dnt want ne 1 else think about that maybe things will be best apart but if u feel it can work go for what you know get your man back and try in every way possible!!!!!!!!
2006-08-21 11:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I am sort of in the same boat. I also have a little girl with my girlfriend(if you want to call her that) and it seems that my actions from the present and the past are drawing us apart. All i can say is that if that person loves you enough and it is ment to be than,love will prevail.
2006-08-21 11:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by borntoride 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call him, mention everything you just said, and when he answers you'll know if he's on the same page as you. But you have to take the initiative to find out if it can still work. Good luck!
2006-08-21 11:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience is a vertue, just make sure you let him know you still care for him very much, and then all you can do is wait for him to open his eyes and come home. If its meant to be... it will
2006-08-21 11:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE A SERIOUS HEART TO HEART AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND SEE WHERE HE STANDS ON IT.
2006-08-21 11:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly dont know
2006-08-21 11:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋