I'm feeling kinda tired to always be sweet when he seems cold, he still talks to me but mostly cold and distant, he's not easy person to hang out with, unhappy, easily get bored, he has nervous energy, he has problem to relax.. he has to do something or he gets crazy. Relationhip takes two.. so i think it's not fair if i have to be patient all the time.. when i'm out of patient and upset i give him silent treatment and he hates that! it's just i need sometimes to just figure it out myself and when i get better then usually he gets back at me with his scary anger (verbally) and finally when we agree to end the fighting, he has gone through the process of really feel normal again by backing off, being cold, busy and distant.. kind of showing me that he's scared to be close to me again til he feels better.. but until when?? sometimes i just can't wait too long and be always sweet if he doesn't seem to care! I just kinda tired to go back and forth with this situation.. what should i do?
2006-08-21 11:15:47 · 3 answers · asked by Nadia Miller 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sound a bit like my former marriage... I guess people go past the initial infatuation with each other and return to being their usual selves. I don't think people change, so if you are not happy and can't accept him for who he is, consider moving on. You might see a marriage counselor, but if your husband does not seem to care about saving the relationship, it's probably pointless...
2006-08-23 09:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by mityaj 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve. He deserves someone who likes that sort of thing. You should stop seeing him because it isn't right for him to be that way to you while you try to be so good to him. You deserve better and get someone who is better k.
2006-08-21 11:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nature's is telling you to move on.
2006-08-21 11:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋