First after dedicating 18 years on a marriage ,he cheats a do eveything on the book to damage the marriage ,he walk out to live with the other woman who persue him nonestop at his work ,inviting him to her place in Ny making him get an apt. in mass. for the both of them etc. ect. ,and now is angry for paying child support and alimony ,he is in debt up to his neck not mentioning having other people suing him and just because he is paying this $ he acts like I'm the biggest ***** in this world instead of recognizing that he has to pay for all he did to his children I his wife .By the way He has never apologyze for anything .Why can he recognize that this woman is manipulating him to think his ex and his children are a ponisment instead of the other way around?Is she so unhappy that needs to act this way ? there has to be something wrong with both of them.
2006-08-21 11:17:44 · 13 answers · asked by Alijoy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You just said ONE thing that got my attention......
"just because he is paying this $ he acts like I'm the biggest B*tch"....."instead of recognizing he has TO PAY FOR ALL HE DID"
I suppose your talking about child support ? You are the biggest B*tch, if you,
like many other women who use child support as a way to get back at men for "WHAT THEY DID".
And why does he "OWE YOU" , because he chose to be with someone else ? So what if she's using or manipulating him ? That's his problem. He chose not to be with you"probably for a good reason"...move on !
And Candie down there "GET WHAT YOU CAN OUTTA HIS A*S". I have an X named "Kandi" and that's her attitude.......
But you see, I do anything my son needs....But that doesn't matter to her...It's the "YOUR GONNA PAY FOR WHAT YOU DID " ATTITUDE that causes problems.
So, go ahead ladies and vote me thumbs down, for speaking the truth, But like I said, I take care of my son and do anything he needs....but I've been on the other side of the games some of you women play trying to "GET EVEN" with a man. And you know women do it. There are a few examples of it right here.
And "Hal" down there, grow a pair !
2006-08-21 11:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by The Hit Man 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Man girl you got it bad right now. That ex of your must have went for a younger slutty useless woman i take it. You should have gotten an apology a long time ago. He disrespected you and your children and has no remorse. I am very sorry to your kids. They are going to remember this for a long time and take it to adulthood as an action that is OK to do to someone. I would be furious. Let him sit in his own waste and sulk. Although it hurts to hear him call you names and know they are coming straight from the mouth of that winch, just smile and say "Well I'm sorry for your other bills, but these children are counting on you to not be selfish and take care of them first. Not your girlfriend, who is probably going to leave you!!!! OK so you might wanna leave the last part out but still! Good luck to you. He will see the light someday and i gauntee it will be too late. I HATE GUYS THAT THINK WITH THE WRONG HEAD! take care
2006-08-21 11:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by kari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's unhappy with you and happy with her then it sucks for you and your kids but he can't be unhappy for everyone elses sake. Be happy that you don't have to deal with his cheating ways anymore. Don't take him back once the other woman dumps him because if he cheated on you once he'll do it again. The best advice I have is to get on with your life, find someone who deserves you and who will respect you and don't give your slimeball ex any other chances. Don't waste your life being unhappy with him just like hes not wasting his life being unhappy with you.
Yes it sucks that he cheated and put you and your children through hell but if he's paying child support and alimony what more do you want? I'm sure you wish this didn't happen but do you want him to come back to you and then both of you and your children will be miserable? Thats what will happen ~you will no longer trust him and it won't be the same. But if he's paying alimony and child support there is nothing you can do. Yes he was a creep but you need to get on with your life and move on without him. He and his new woman can call you a ***** all they want but they are just mad he's paying you. If he stops, take him to court but if he doesn't you can't do anything about it.
Sorry I'm being so frank but I don't want to sugar coat it for you. Feeling sorry for yourself isn't going to help you~ its going to make it worse for you.
2006-08-21 11:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He (or you) desires to sue her for the $500 back. And enable me get something else of this right now.. He needs to ensure the newborn and characteristic visitation yet not be to blame for the newborn financially? sounds like a loser useless beat dad to me. How about this.. attempt making arrangements with the newborn's mom so a ways as what you will pay for (e.g. you'll purchase the diapers, formula, clothing, be to blame for 1/2 of the newborn's clinical expenditures etc) yet you received't purely hand her the money to do with as she pleases. Then per chance you 2 would have the right papers drawn up, signed, and also get it signed through a notary. i do not understand if it is going to delay in courtroom even with the undeniable fact that this is properly worth a shot.
2016-11-30 23:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything that would cause him to stop paying alimony Like remarry. Look I'm a man and that the way I feel about guy's like him. Take him for what ever you can.
2006-08-25 10:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all you need to find it in your heart to forgive him even though he is immature and didn't apologize to you you be the better person so you don't have so much animosity in your heart. he will reap what he has sown you don't want that burden on you. then you can start your healing process and move on. what he goes through he asked for and maybe just maybe he will mature for the kids sake. any man who allows a woman to come between he and his kids is first of all not a man and secondly will not respect that woman. cause when he is on his death bed it may just be his kids to give him that last drink if water
2006-08-21 11:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to court for child support, have him see the kids through a mediator, so that you dont have any contact with the slime ball at all & get on with your life, your much better without him, once a cheat, always a cheat. alot of men figure once there out of a marrige, there out of everything, including their kids, he made them & he has to support them. Stay away from him, & you won't have to listen to him call you names.
2006-08-21 11:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by yvonne p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for 1 hes an a**hole for letting another woman come between his children he shouldnt mind paying cause i bet he aint helping you out in other ways like school clothes, shoes etc f*ck him girl get what u can out of his a** a real man will still take care of his kids even though the marriage didnt work that h*e got mind control over him and leave them as that get what u get and take care of your business cause us ladies can make it on our own but child support is just a reminder that hey it takes 2
2006-08-21 11:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Stop taking money from him. Be a real woman and don't accept anything else from him. If women want equality, don't accept any money from men. It's that simple. You know how women operate, it's a *****.
2006-08-21 11:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by Matt Beezy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sue him for child support and move on. He sounds like a real loser and the other woman probably deserves him.
2006-08-21 11:24:09 · answer #10 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋