Family & Relationships - 19 August 2006

I have a beautiful, faithful 30-something year old wife. We are both white. Recently at a wedding, I was having a temporary knee problem so i agreed to allow my wife to dance with anyone she wished at the reception. I'm not the jeolous type. Later, she came to me and whispered, "You're gonna get lucky tonight, mister." She explained that a handsome black guy had pressed against her while dancing and, let's just say she was impressed. He told her, "I'm so embarressed that I'm rock hard. Please don't walk away and allow everyone to see", so she kept dancing, obviously turned on. She was honest. So I wouldn't get upset, she stayed close to me the rest of the night. We had amazing sex that night. A week later, she asked me if she could have a black stripper for her birthday. She said that she just realized at the wedding what a turn on seeing a large black dick would be. She said that she only wanted this one fantasy and would never ask for another. Should I give my wife a treat?

2006-08-19 12:48:53 · 28 answers · asked by C C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-19 12:46:41 · 10 answers · asked by J' K '06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been seeing a girl next door to me for 9 months now. and it has been the best 9 months of my life, and we did have the most amazing tme . but a week ago we split because she said we were to different. i never had a job when she did . but trust me i was trying. she was an admin manager to good for me maybe ??. ... anyway im still next door and i think she has another man in there . its cracking me up .... dont tell me to move i cant

2006-08-19 12:46:38 · 22 answers · asked by tucker82 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he himself
she does?

2006-08-19 12:45:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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I have a beautiful, faithful 30-something year old wife. We are both white. Recently at a wedding, I was having a temporary knee problem so i agreed to allow my wife to dance with anyone she wished at the reception. I'm not the jeolous type. Later, she came to me and whispered, "You're gonna get lucky tonight, mister." She explained that a handsome black guy had pressed against her while dancing and, let's just say she was impressed. He told her, "I'm so embarressed that I'm rock hard. Please don't walk away and allow everyone to see", so she kept dancing, obviously turned on. She was honest. So I wouldn't get upset, she stayed close to me the rest of the night. We had amazing sex that night. A week later, she asked me if she could have a black stripper for her birthday. She said that she just realized at the wedding what a turn on seeing a large black dick would be. She said that she only wanted this one fantasy and would never ask for another. Should I let my wife?

2006-08-19 12:45:46 · 10 answers · asked by C C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Don't they seem to contradict themselves?

2006-08-19 12:44:38 · 15 answers · asked by tweety 3 in Family

i meet a girl and i fall in love ok but then when i get dumped i find it SO hard to get over it i meet some and im in love i want to stop myself from first sight then love

2006-08-19 12:44:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

tattoos! and piercings

2006-08-19 12:42:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-19 12:41:39 · 30 answers · asked by strictly_maggie 3 in Singles & Dating

I told her once when it was mild but she said it was normal and I just feel like I dont want to be helped btu my friend insisted on posting this up.

2006-08-19 12:41:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Did you know that if you are sitting around horny, are 18 or over and have a pic of yourself, that you can e-mail me through my profile?

And did you know that I like to talk nasty?

How about that! Now aren't you glad you know?

2006-08-19 12:41:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boy always checks out other girls in front of me. I understand that it's human nature to be attracted to others and even look once in a while. But he stares, and I know exactly at who; at the girls with the mini skirts and their boobs hanging out. When I told him that I think it's disrespectful, he asked me why I sometimes wear low cut shirts, to attract attention? and I told him because that's the kind of **** he pays attention to, that's who he checks out. It really makes me uncomfortable, considering he just has to look them up and down right in front of me. He thinks he's being sneaky when he does it but his head turns every 5 seconds.

2006-08-19 12:39:13 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know some mothers (including mine and my wifes) that act like they own their children. Example: If you don't do something exactly the way they ask, they will go on a guilt trip rant about how they sacrificed and dedicated their whole life to us, and nothing was good enough for their children, yada, yada, yada, guilt, guilt, guilt. Why? Why is it that some parents can have a normal relationship with their children where both parties accept and respect each other? Why do some mothers think that they own us when we, the children did not choose them? We were passengers in this journey they call motherhood. I say: "Children of the world! You owe you parents NOTHING! They should take care of themselves!"

2006-08-19 12:38:24 · 18 answers · asked by blue2monday 3 in Family

I have been with this guy for year and half and Im about to have his baby. Im just finding out that he is marry and possible have other kids with this woman. Should I confort him with the news that I know that he is marry or leave the subject alone, and go on with my life.

2006-08-19 12:38:07 · 8 answers · asked by sharrelle1385 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-19 12:37:52 · 39 answers · asked by MIMI2HOT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf said he had to do something on the day it was our two month annyversery. So I spied on him cause i know he would never miss any of our annyversiry. So. i followed him and i saw him eating with another girl. He was also kissing her!!!!! What do i do?

2006-08-19 12:37:45 · 38 answers · asked by MileyLover 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-19 12:35:02 · 16 answers · asked by jennifer m 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was talking to this guy, who is let's say ten years older than me and I'm in my early twenties. But then one day he said that he didn't want to lead me on because he still likes his ex. We both still remained close friends after that. But then one day I found out that his ex came back like a month before we went back to being friends. I confronted him about this and he just gave me some excuse. From then on, we agreed to be straight-forward with each other. Then I found out from him that his ex wants him back. The thing is we talk everyday over the phone, but then recently one night he ignored my calls and texts. He seems to be trying to avoid me at all cost. I really do value the friendship, and still want to continue it. So, I was thinking should I send an e-mail? Is that too much? Should I just forget about being friends? I'm really confused as to why he would do this? At the same time I'm feeling very hurt.

2006-08-19 12:33:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

say hello.I am very content in my relationship,and soon will be getting married,but my fiancee ex calls him maybe once or twice a month,why?My friends told me to stop trippin he bought me the house and I have the world,but I take this is disrespect.Am I wrong ladies?

2006-08-19 12:32:40 · 5 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just want to do something for her to know that I love and and appreciate her for sticking by me through all my deployment and how I much I love her. The problem is I dont know what to do.

2006-08-19 12:32:17 · 11 answers · asked by nappyhead_dd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-19 12:32:16 · 9 answers · asked by kvnaponte 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-19 12:30:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Every single relationship I have been in, I felt like I needed to compete against another person to keep my love interest at the time. I hate competition, so I would just give in and break up. I need help because I want my love interest to have friends of both genders but I do not want to compete or feel like I need to. Any suggestions?

2006-08-19 12:29:42 · 11 answers · asked by Sapphire 3 in Singles & Dating

How about it, children or not? Would your marraige be happier if you had no children by choice?

2006-08-19 12:29:31 · 23 answers · asked by Digital Angst 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever been spanked as an adult in a relationship? If so why were you spanked and how were you spanked? What position and with what?

2006-08-19 12:29:29 · 5 answers · asked by WhoMe 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im looking to have a small beach wedding in michigan. with a nice place to dine and have drinks near by. please dont say light house point I love the location but my sister recently got married there. thanks

2006-08-19 12:29:21 · 12 answers · asked by frank 1 in Weddings

He is an ex gang leader, has links with other gang member in and out of jail.

2006-08-19 12:29:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am recently divorced, in my 30's and I have no clue where to go to when I am by myself on a Saturday night. Where would a man go if he was in the same situation as I am? A woman can not walk into a bar by herslef. For one thing it is dangerous and another I really dont want a drunk. Please serious replies only and quickly. It is 7:30 and I am ready........ LOL

2006-08-19 12:27:44 · 16 answers · asked by michelea00 1 in Singles & Dating

He has 0 period and he's not used to waking up early at all and he stays up a lot. I wanted to bring him breakfasts before his classes so he can eat it because he rushes out the door without any breakfast. Do you have any ideas on what i can make him?

2006-08-19 12:27:17 · 10 answers · asked by pattybananacakes 2 in Singles & Dating

I was dumped 4 and a half weeks ago I am well over it but I just can't seem to spring back like he did...any one got any tips I mean I have gotten a couple guys numbers and been asked out but I was not interested that person Please help! WTF should I do?

2006-08-19 12:26:05 · 18 answers · asked by Pamela Michele 2 in Singles & Dating