My boy always checks out other girls in front of me. I understand that it's human nature to be attracted to others and even look once in a while. But he stares, and I know exactly at who; at the girls with the mini skirts and their boobs hanging out. When I told him that I think it's disrespectful, he asked me why I sometimes wear low cut shirts, to attract attention? and I told him because that's the kind of **** he pays attention to, that's who he checks out. It really makes me uncomfortable, considering he just has to look them up and down right in front of me. He thinks he's being sneaky when he does it but his head turns every 5 seconds.
2006-08-19 12:39:13 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should break up with him. We boys are obliged to be monogamous. We are obliged to love our girls, either girlfriend or wife. And if a boy is not like that, he is not supposed to have a girlfriend!! It's time for you to find someone more righteous. I'm not trying to be religious here, I'm just saying the very basic things that a boyfriend should consider before he even gets a girlfriend.
2006-08-19 12:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 3⤋
Im a lifeless ringer for that with my boyfriend! Im the jealous type so I run into this some circumstances. do not enable it get to you, jealousy is undesirable for a relationship. And him seeing you disenchanted will particularly annoy him considering adult men imagine there is not any reason for you to be disenchanted even in spite of the reality that they recognize what they have carried out that or it truly is going to disenchanted him to boot and make him imagine lowly. yet they cant administration it they are adult men.
2016-11-05 04:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by hartzell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are always like that, specially when good lusty boobs are at hand. Mini skirts really does attract more attention than bikinis. That is human nature. But infront of you is different. He may look at it once but staring at it even if you are not around is quite absurd. If your boyfriend cannot control himself in front of you, much more when you are not around. He is not worth it.. Believe you me.. He could be cheating on you in the future.
2006-08-19 12:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by yulnores 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
1. Dump him
2. Stop wearing low cut things and hanging out to get a boys
attention
3. Have some respect for yourself
4. Get some self-confidence
A boy should be with you because he enjoys your company and not "checking out girls" so blantantly in front of you. Move on Sweetie... now!
2006-08-19 12:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 6⤊ 3⤋
not kewl! ur right u have every right to feel disrespected b/c thats exactly what is happening...its human nature to look and appreiciate beauty but very rude and inconsiderate to stare and do double takes right in front of u...doesnt he understand how that makes u feel.. kinda like ur not good enough to keep all his attention...either he starts caring about ur feelings or i personally wouldnt put up with that kind a behavior id find a man u wants me and only me and thinks no other compares
2006-08-19 12:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
baby girl get rid of this jackass. i had a dog just like that and it will take your self esteem away. i started wondering what is wrong with me. its him he is no good. it made me feel real down. i know what you are going thru. it will only get worse. lust is one of the deadly sins. this man has no respect for you. believe me those women see him doing this. and they also see you with him. i wanted so bad to slap my bf for this ****. but i kept holding back then one day i slapped him so hard i slapped his glasses off. that four eyed frog and i are not together anymore and im very happy. sometimes i catch myself trying to dress better to get attention but now it doesnt matter. ill dress the way i want. a man like that has nothing but sex on his mind. he has gave his heart and mind to these other women. i couldnt lay next to a bastard like that. cuz if he wanted to have sex i would then think about how he lusted for these other women. oh no. he wont get none from me. he is a pervert and he is not use to women . and he cant control himself. if he does that in front of you just think what he does when you are not around. good luck
2006-08-19 13:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Your boy is being disrespectful twice: 1. for looking in front of you and 2. for not caring what you think. Is it normal to look? Of course, but there is something called discretion and tact and respect, of which he has none. He needs to respect you or not respect the next girl that comes along and go with her, maybe she won't have any self-respect and put up with that nonsense.
2006-08-19 12:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by Ambrosia 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
He is being very rude and disrespectful towards you. Dump the jerk and move on. Find yourself someone who respects you enough to treat you like a true lady.
P.S. And Tommy's answer is so wrong. Not ALL guys are like that. Just the jerks.
2006-08-19 12:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by OrangeCharlie 5 · 6⤊ 2⤋
I know exactly how you feel. My husband does the exact thing and I hate it. No matter how many times I catch him checking out someone else, he denies it or says "what? I wasnt looking at anyone." As if we are that stupid. They think we dont notice.
2006-08-19 12:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by missie 4 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Start checking guys out in front of him, and see how he likes it.
2006-08-19 12:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋