2006-08-19 12:35:02 · 16 answers · asked by jennifer m 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes I have after I exhausted every way possible to save my relationship. I thought about for a very long time. My relationship was gone when I found out that she didn't want to be with me and I tried to get help in the way of individual and couples therapy but in the end nothing helped. The only thing that I wished for that the person I had a affair with would have stayed through the divorce process but she decided to move on. My ex was very vindictive and it was good to end it to be able to find love again.
2006-08-20 04:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have cheated and definitely it was not worth it.
The thoughts of cheating have always been around and will continue so. But what really makes a TRUE LOVE between two people is the act of resisting TOTALLY any cheating at all. Of course we are all human and fail but as long as you continue to resist the temptation and strife to be true, then you will develop a genuine...TRUE LOVE.
2006-08-19 19:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by oldtimer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cheated once. My boyfriend was putting no effort twords our relationship. I really can't say if it was worth it our not. I thought I loved the guy I cheated with. I think about him every day, but at the same time my boyfriend is trying to get his self together, so I'm really not sure. I guess it was worth it....The sex was great..lol.
2006-08-19 19:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by chschica2oo6 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have a conscious...DON'T DO IT!!! He may never find out, but it eats at you until you feel horrible and empty. Then the relationship starts to fall apart. From experience this happened to me (thanks to goin all out in the military!)and i lasted 3 years trying to make it work. I ended up telling him everything. It may have not been the best thing to do, but I couldn't lie anymore and I will never cheat again. If I feel like I want to, then I know I'm not with the right guy....
2006-08-19 19:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is NEVER worth it. Trust me. Because once u do Your relationship is over bc the other person can't trust you or the other way around
2006-08-19 19:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sami 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought about it, did it and now completely regret it. I did it because I was missing spontaneity and excitement in my relationship. We aren't together now and I never told him about it, so now i have to live with the guilt forever.My current bf doesn't even trust me completely because of it, It was definitely not worth it, I'd do anything to take it back.
2006-08-19 22:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lana L. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have in a past relationship,, but you know what,, It hurts so many people.. I wish I could go back and change it but you can't,, Like they say hind site is 20/20. Don't ever do it.. Start free & fresh with a relationship.
2006-08-19 19:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i cheated once,cause he cheated on me,and i wanted him to know how he had hurt me,and no it didn't worth it cause he didn't even care.
2006-08-19 19:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by BeGood. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes , cheated..was with someone who couldn't satisfy me and wasn't willing to try...It was definately worth it!!!!
2006-08-19 19:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by missing_something 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive only cheated once. i cheated b/c my boifriend was doing it and so i did. yes it was worth it b/c the guy i cheated with is the guy im going to marry.
2006-08-19 19:41:14 · answer #10 · answered by ajiel07 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋