i have been seeing a girl next door to me for 9 months now. and it has been the best 9 months of my life, and we did have the most amazing tme . but a week ago we split because she said we were to different. i never had a job when she did . but trust me i was trying. she was an admin manager to good for me maybe ??. ... anyway im still next door and i think she has another man in there . its cracking me up .... dont tell me to move i cant
2006-08-19 12:46:38 · 22 answers · asked by tucker82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
at this moment you're still hurting but this will pass,time is a healer.She couldnt have had the same feelings for you as you did her.Go out and pretend like you dont care,take a deep breath and hold your head high as you walk past her house even if inside you want to cry and tell her how much you love her,dont let her see you like this it wont change her feelings for you.If she sees you starting to get a life without her she oneday will see what shes lost and by then you will have moved on and will have met someone who truely loves you for the person you are.Everyone whos been in love has been hurt by love,but you will find that you will love again and be loved again.take care and be strong,cry in private and hold your head high in public you will get through it....promise.x
2006-08-19 13:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, you need to stay cool. I would keep up the plan, still look for a job and get yourself together. then find you a new girl. NEVEr let on to this materialistic woman that she is hurting you with this man. Thats if you were really trying. Your best bet is to make her feel like she is below your status now, without ever really saying it
2006-08-19 20:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by angelnmuh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job! hard as it seems right now cos your only focused on her.. but I tell you summin you will definately meet new people when you got a job and when you socialise with them you meet more people again.. so your neighbour is just a past experience. Life is too short to wonder whats going on behind closed doors.. so go out and enjoy your life.
2006-08-19 20:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by scorpion queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T PANIC.
First of all, there are more girls than guys in the world. So you are very likely to run into another girl sometime in your life. Maybe even someone more compatible with you.
Remember, if you breakdown from this, than she still has power over you. Let no man (or woman) be your master.
2006-08-19 19:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by Gatsby Follower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, thats gotta hurt. I don't think the only problem was you not having a job. Especially if you just split up and she already has someone in the house with her. I say talk to her about how you really feel and if that doesn't work, trade fire for fire, make her jealous too.
2006-08-19 19:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out and start meeting other people. She broke up with you, so move on. No, it isn't easy, but it's what you have to do. And turn your head towards your other neighbors... so you don't watch what is going on at her house all the time. Get out, be social and have a life of your own.
2006-08-19 19:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking to us, get a job and meet some one new. The only way out. If you sit at home you will sink into Depression
2006-08-19 19:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by thecharleslloyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break ups are hard. Especially when the person is living next door and you have to see them with another person. You have to suck it up and get over her and go on with your life....Find another person yourself and take your mind off of her
2006-08-19 19:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by travelgrl85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just throw a handgreanade threw her bedroom window and if you hear two screams just before the explosion then you know that she does have (had) another person in her life
2006-08-19 19:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by Spooky Mouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, don't be a wuss... It's pathetic. Get a job, and you'll have better luck with women, believe me. Get a hobby or try online dating.
2006-08-19 19:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋