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I have a beautiful, faithful 30-something year old wife. We are both white. Recently at a wedding, I was having a temporary knee problem so i agreed to allow my wife to dance with anyone she wished at the reception. I'm not the jeolous type. Later, she came to me and whispered, "You're gonna get lucky tonight, mister." She explained that a handsome black guy had pressed against her while dancing and, let's just say she was impressed. He told her, "I'm so embarressed that I'm rock hard. Please don't walk away and allow everyone to see", so she kept dancing, obviously turned on. She was honest. So I wouldn't get upset, she stayed close to me the rest of the night. We had amazing sex that night. A week later, she asked me if she could have a black stripper for her birthday. She said that she just realized at the wedding what a turn on seeing a large black dick would be. She said that she only wanted this one fantasy and would never ask for another. Should I let my wife?
2006-08-19 12:45:46 · 10 answers · asked by C C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have done this with many white couples .Let me tll ya I stay busy with these little white girls sneaking off to **** me .
2006-08-19 12:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by none 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right now you have an open and honest relationship with a faithful wife.
If you do anything to screw it up (i.e. forbid her to do something that is NOT cheating) she will probably still have the fantasy, she will just keep it a secret from you. You will be pushing her away. And it may develop into an obsession.
I personally don't think watching a male stripper is cheating. You can lay out as many ground rules as you want (no touching, no kissing, etc.) and then say ONE TIME THAT'S ALL!!!!
She will most likely get this idea out of her system and never even think of it again. It's a novelty. Like if you saw a woman with enormous boobs and wanted to know what they looked like. She doesn't want to cheat on you. She just is curious.
Your wife will appreciate your willingness to give her something she wants and maybe you can get one of your fantasies fulfilled later.
2006-08-19 20:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by loves2fly84095 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it's just a fantasy, I don't see how it could hurt. However, you could take her to a strip club instead of hiring a stripper. I would also make sure you were present. If it's a party, there will be alcohol there. That means lowered inhibitions. Just to be on the safe side, take her out, don't bring him in.
2006-08-19 20:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mary J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't allow her to have a stripper, that's like loosing respect for one another, if that happens you're both doomed.
2006-08-19 20:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by locamiami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her have him, but say that you want a super hot stripper of your fantasy for one of your birthdays. In other words, compromise.
2006-08-19 20:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by Robert F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is always how you fell about it cuz she'll love you no matter what. it is a fantasy and they don't mean nothing but how do you feel.
2006-08-19 19:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by cassandra n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. She may never come back
2006-08-19 19:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it and maybe you should watch
2006-08-23 18:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by marrissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya...she will remember that for later too
2006-08-19 19:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by matthew 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
buy her a black dildo and use it in her
2006-08-19 21:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by europe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋