Should I give my wife a treat?

Question

I have a beautiful, faithful 30-something year old wife. We are both white. Recently at a wedding, I was having a temporary knee problem so i agreed to allow my wife to dance with anyone she wished at the reception. I'm not the jeolous type. Later, she came to me and whispered, "You're gonna get lucky tonight, mister." She explained that a handsome black guy had pressed against her while dancing and, let's just say she was impressed. He told her, "I'm so embarressed that I'm rock hard. Please don't walk away and allow everyone to see", so she kept dancing, obviously turned on. She was honest. So I wouldn't get upset, she stayed close to me the rest of the night. We had amazing sex that night. A week later, she asked me if she could have a black stripper for her birthday. She said that she just realized at the wedding what a turn on seeing a large black dick would be. She said that she only wanted this one fantasy and would never ask for another. Should I give my wife a treat?

Answer 1

No that's a gross fantasy anyways.

Answer 2

Oh why not? Take her to see Boys of Steele or the Chippendales.
Those are "male reviews" wherein the guys - each of 'em drop dead gorgeous hunks - really do let it all hang out. The performance will be in a nightclub setting where more than an occasional bit of grabass just won't happen. Like at strip shows you and I might have attended (and I ain't admittin' nothin!), the girls will "encourage" the guys to get totally bare - sometimes a girl will reach up and stuff a dollar bill in the guy's jock shorts - that's the "encouragement". Ya know, this way she gets her wish, and since you're along, you won't have to worry about things going further than a lascivicious peek show. There is a blatant touch of sexism and racism in most of these performances, because the black performers usually get the loudest raves.

Answer 3

I don't know what a black stripper is, but if as I understood it as a "large black dick", then that means it is a dildo or an add on, a sleeve I see in those sextoys store, you wear it on yours, so it makes yours larger, harder.
Yes go ahead. You should be thankful your wife is honest with you with her fantasy. Have you been honest to her with your fantasies? Anyway that is besides the question, but if you do love your wife and you will not feel guilty (which you should not), you should even be turned-on, go ahead.
If my wife will ask me for it, I will not give a second thought, and she needed not repeat it with me. She can have it for as long as she likes it and enjoys it,, with you alone of course. It sure would double my turn on

Answer 4

NO. Sorry but your wife seems to be getting carried away without her knowlegde. She seems to be truely in love with you, is honest to you (something that deservs respect) and what tops it all to me is that despite what happened on the dance floor, she stayed by your side the rest of the night and had sex with YOU. That means a lot! Meaning she has absolutely no intention of being unfaithful to you. But I feel she could get carried away with her fantasy if she is not warned. I think you need to talk to her and tell her to first think about what she is doing and what she is feeling. I'm guessing she hasnt seen a black 'one' in real. As far as what I've heard, black ones are bigger than white ones. You know what.. I think all she needs is some romance from YOU. More than sex, it's the sweet really romantic things that the husband does for a woman that makes her love him even more and makes her not even feel like looking outside marriage for any sort of fulfillment. It happens in marriage that things kinnda die down after a while, but men need to realise that sometimes they need to take the initiative and surprise his wife with something really romantic. Women want love. and if I've got it right.. men want sex. Your need to take care of this situation before it gets worse.

Answer 5

Do you think it was wrong for her to stay pressed against the black man at the reception? Even though your sex that night was great?
I think she is taking her curiousity of black men to a whole new level. Maybe it will give you amazing sex on her birthday.
But what if her curiousity soon leads to wanting to f*** another man? Then will it be okay still?

Answer 6

hmmm, it's really great she was honest. I can't believe she asked for a stripper. would she be willing to let you get a stripper. I wouldn't. What if she finds out after she sees the stripper that she wants to experience that big blackness for herself? could be asking for more issues. Doesn't it make you feel uncomfortable she's asking?

Answer 7

Too late buddy, good luck . Once a woman wants something, she'll get it no matter what . And remember that we are human and we are very greedy, once we have 1 thing we will ask for another .

Answer 8

I would just be there to make sure that this turn on doesn't turn into anything other than a little fantasy deal

Answer 9

Oh gosh. Weren't you upset when you heard your wife say that to you? That's so terrible. Didn't you feel even a little bit jealous?? Dude, I think you're a gay!

Answer 10

OMG ! This is so funny. So.. uhm, yeah go ahead. Give her a treat so she doesn't cheat on you and go find herself a black guy. Seriously, it'll make her love you forever.

Answer 11

No I don't think thats a good Idea, ever heard once they go black they never go back, LOL..... anyway it just plain nasty to even suggest sharing this with anyone... Use your damn head on this one!!!