Every single relationship I have been in, I felt like I needed to compete against another person to keep my love interest at the time. I hate competition, so I would just give in and break up. I need help because I want my love interest to have friends of both genders but I do not want to compete or feel like I need to. Any suggestions?
2006-08-19 12:29:42 · 11 answers · asked by Sapphire 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not good.. you need to be secure with yourself before moving into a relationship. also your trust in your partner should be an important cornerstone of your relationship
2006-08-19 12:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by Yucifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thast completely wrong....there should be no competition. Stop competing and you will see that competition around you will cease. The thing is to get along with the flow, let ppl live their lives( everyone got their problems and so on). IF you feel the need for competition, then maybe you want to make yourself the celebrity among your friends. thats harsh reality. just go wiz the flow, let life go as it is, help your friends and be there for them, and there wont be any need to compete.
2006-08-19 12:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well any time you feel that you are competing in a relationship you better get out. But no one ask you to compete so ask yourself why are you competing?
2006-08-19 12:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by porche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a man,not a boy,he will since your feelings and the way you feel and you would'nt haf to try and compete with these other women.I just posted something very similar,my fiancee still talks to his ex,she calls him maybe once or twice a month and I'm like for what,so I understand how you feel.But it has to be something special about you if he picked you and not one of them.
2006-08-19 12:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you half to compete it is not real . a real relationship will put you first so I would break up to because that is to much.
2006-08-19 12:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by marrissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya if u want jus try to keep him or u can give it up and find the rite girl
2006-08-19 12:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to your partner .plus it's more of jealousy than competition....grow up a little ok
2006-08-19 12:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by annebops 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want a guy like that any way.
2006-08-19 12:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a therapist
2006-08-19 12:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by rsuavez66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a nun?
2006-08-19 12:34:51 · answer #10 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋