Been spanked within a relationship?

Question

Have you ever been spanked as an adult in a relationship? If so why were you spanked and how were you spanked? What position and with what?

Olive olive since you asked - yes I have been many times and I enjoy it. Been spanked kneeling on the bed, over the knee, standing. With hand, ruler, belt and cane.

Answer 1

Yes-- can't imagine a relationship without it. I dated a vanilla once and it just wasn't the same.

We mainly do it for fun and as foreplay. Once or twice it has been discipline, but that's not really our thing.

Implements: Cane, paddle, hand, switch, hairbrush, belt, strap, and any other pervertable we find :)

Positions: On my toes (for the caning), laying on the couch or bed, bent over the couch or bed, OTK, but my favorite is laying over his lap in bed (clothing optional)

Answer 2

Only been spanked a couple of times as an adult, just to see what it was like - but I've given spankings many more times than I can count. I almost always spank otk - it just feels so deliciously intimate for both parties - though some implements, like belts, straps, canes, etc, work better with her bending over a bed or a chair. As for why - oh, any number of pretexts, though 'just because' is still pretty good.

And thinkofasong, I couldn't agree more. Once you're into spanking, vanilla relationships just don't cut it any more.

Answer 3

Ahh, I love fetish Q's. I am spanked almost daily by my hubby who says "What really turns me on is the shake"...lol He only does it with his hand and usually when I'm walking past him. I have asked for a belt before but he refuses. Best wishes

Answer 4

some people like to be spanked in a relationship. u tell me and i tell u. lol

Answer 5

I have been, lightly, but I didn't really enjoy it. I found it more annoying than anything else. Just not my thing. Too mundane and vanilla compared to what I usually enjoy.