He is an ex gang leader, has links with other gang member in and out of jail.
2006-08-19 12:29:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hun, Trust your heart. If you feel that this relationship is going to be this way forever. Why would you want to feel threatened for the rest of your life. Talk to someone. If police is not an option then try a minister or dear friend. Good Luck, I will be thinking about you.
2006-08-19 12:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Warn your friends and family about him and his threats, go get a restraining order, and lay low for a while. You need to get out and you never know if he's serious about actually doing it. Most gang members will not get involved with relationships of individual members unless it is their family member. If you know any of the girls in the gang, that you can talk to, ask them to run interference for you. I'm surprised they haven't tried to force you to join already.
bottom line- get away from him with help of loved ones and police.
2006-08-19 12:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by dina h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Warn your family and friends about his threats, and make an exit plan for yourself with the help of a local domestic violence shelter. They CAN and WILL help you get away to safety when you are ready, and can give you emotional support and coping strategies until you are. You can look in your local phonebook for domestic violence shelters in your area, or you can call the police for a referral.
If you are in northern california, SAVE (Shelters Against Violent Environments) can be very helpful: http://www.save-dv.org/contact.html
Take care of yourself, and best of luck to you!!
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2006-08-19 12:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by AmericanDreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Temporary restraining order, break up with him, call the police, call one of the battered women's shelters and find out what resources they have locally.
2006-08-19 12:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by TheSlayor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you what. my ex was a leading member of the vice lords and he beat me so badly one night i told him i was leaving. he told me if i did that he would kill my grandmother........(who is my best friend) and i called the police and told them what was going on and i left. he did come after me and my grandma but i showed him i wasnt afraid and he left me alone. good luck hun
2006-08-19 12:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by rosewalker1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really don't know,that's hard cause you can't leave him,um...there's nothing you can do rather than get the police be with you when you are gonna leave him,or move far away where he can't find you,otherwise,there's nothing else you can do. good luck,hands down!!!
2006-08-19 12:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by BeGood. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file a complaint against him with the police department and then ask for protection
2006-08-19 18:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not stay with him. Get a restrainig order and tell your friends and family to be on gaurd.
2006-08-19 12:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by my two cents 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the police or tell your family to and warn them.go to the police and tell them.they should give you one of those papers were your b/f isnt aloud to hit you touch whatever u want
2006-08-19 12:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by Bouncer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you sure got yourself in a messed up situation, huh? good luck with that.
2006-08-19 12:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by calgarysworst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋