My bf said he had to do something on the day it was our two month annyversery. So I spied on him cause i know he would never miss any of our annyversiry. So. i followed him and i saw him eating with another girl. He was also kissing her!!!!! What do i do?
2006-08-19 12:37:45 · 38 answers · asked by MileyLover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confront him, and dump him. You will feel better about things if you are the one that does the dumping. He is not worth being with.
2006-08-19 12:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by June V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him and dump his @ss, not even 2 months and he's off seeing someone else??, dont let him slip out of it. You caught him, if he denys it or if he is honest with you, you deserve better! Once a cheater always a cheater! If you want ask him first what he ended up doing that day, ask him who this girl is, give him a chance to explain, but seriously honey, dont deal with the extra heatbreak, and dump him!
2006-08-19 12:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two month anniversary? LOL Anyway, how would you know if he would never miss any anniversary since it has only been 2 months? How old are you anyway? Dump him if he is cheating on you. But I also think you sound controling. I mean spying on him? The only reason you should spy is if he has cheated on you before. Which if he has cheated before then you should have dumped him then. LOL Goodluck
2006-08-19 12:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by Froggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you should comfront him. Its always good to see that look on his face. But i advise to do it in a public place. This way you're safer. And not only that maybe there'll be a cute waiter there to lend you a crying shoulder?
*grins*
I think that unless you wanna tolerate this kinda behaviour the others have good points.
I'd never stay with someone that didn't treat me the way that i deserved.
2006-08-19 12:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by warm_champaign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after two months, you can't say you KNOW he wouldn't miss it, because he did. But, confront him about it and dump him in public. don't take any flack or excuses, there isn't one if he kissed her. up to that point it could have been a cousin or friend, but the kiss sealed the deal.
2006-08-19 12:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by dina h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately... there isn't anything you can do. What can you do... win him back? Then what? You'll wonder what he's doing all the time. A relationship is built on trust and if he broke that... there is no going back.
And besides.... do you really want a man who obviously can't tell the truth or commit to you?
Good luck!!
2006-08-19 12:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by Katie A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If you can't trust him as a bf, you can't trust him as a husband and better to find out now, than to find out 2 or 3 kids from now and kill a marriage.
2006-08-19 12:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by Devaneymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship were supposed to be exclusive, it is no longer. It would have helped to know the ages involved.
You have placed too much heart in this relationship. Tell him that you don't want to be exclusive anymore , you need to grow,. What he says next will determine your next move. Is it not enough to know your relationship is not mutual.
2006-08-19 12:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well give him 1 more chance and have a lonng talk bout him cheating trust me my bf just gone talkin to me he live at kentucky i live in arkansa we nevr c eachother and he says that we nevr talk that maybe we should break up it was was bad cuz i luv him a lot and he has like broke my heart
2006-08-19 12:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by staryeyes96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he is one of those men who like to "have his cake and eat it to" You have not been with him long so why even bother wasting your breath on his cheating butt? Dump him and move on dear. Unless you do not mind sharing your man?
2006-08-19 12:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋