Family & Relationships - 15 August 2006

2006-08-15 04:53:41 · 20 answers · asked by akilahlking 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been having problems with my dad,my brother is down and we were talking about when I'm going to be in the hospital to have my baby and everything.A while back my dad acted like I was pulling teeth when I asked if he was going to come see me and the new baby while we were in the hospital, but I thought he was joking. My brother told me dad said he didn't want to come down because it was too far to drive (2 hrs by the way) and dad said "I don't know what the big deal is I mean, You see one baby you've seen them all". I was so upset yesterday,I cried for hours. He of all people should know how big of a deal giving birth can be, his, mom died giving birth to his sister.I know I'm not going to die, but I'm his daughter for crying out loud!Any action I take even if it is just "well, **** you have a good life" It's going to be MY fault our relationship is ruined. It's always MY fault. It's so frustrating. How can I get him to see how much this hurts me? He knows how bad I want him there!

2006-08-15 04:53:30 · 14 answers · asked by LiL' Momma 4 in Family

2006-08-15 04:53:19 · 7 answers · asked by michaelcarterv2 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 04:53:03 · 4 answers · asked by qwerty 2 in Friends

iam the only one who can understand dvd's, camcorders and cameras in my house. i can handle any problem, but they can't..why is that?

2006-08-15 04:52:50 · 13 answers · asked by Seungyong W 5 in Family

I feel sexually attracted to my bf whenever I am around him and want to 'have fun' but I try to hint it to him and some days he isn't into it and totally doesn't get the clue. What should I do??

2006-08-15 04:52:08 · 12 answers · asked by physco_villian 1 in Singles & Dating

i know most of u will say yes, but how can u feel close at a very intimate level if u havent gotten intimate yet?

2006-08-15 04:52:03 · 15 answers · asked by VanillaIce 3 in Singles & Dating

people tell me to flirt and im not sure specifically what they mean

2006-08-15 04:51:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So i am w/ my best friend (a guy) and another good friend (a girl)... we are hangin at the bar... the two of them are kidna together... but not very serious. So some girl i dont know starts flirting w/ me... i am kinda jokin w/ my friends abotu her... but then... i start flirting back. The girl- friend i was with looks @ me and says "what are you doing?" "are you flirting with her?" ... then i go... "maybe.." then she says "Stop it!"... what the hell is that? lol can someone please help me figure out why she got so angry or w/e...

2006-08-15 04:50:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife is convinced that she is responsible for solving every single issue in the of life her mother, brother, sisters and their offspring. It makes me very uncomfortable to see how my wife has not been able to draw clear boundaries between her family and our own. We have 2 boys and often I feel that her priority is not us but her own family that bog her down with countless problems. This situation has made our marriage very unstable because it has cause the loss of my trust on her. Most of the help she provides to her family is done without my knowledge.
Every time I confront her about this issue she responds saying that I am a selfish psychopath.
I strongly believe that when a couple gets married the relationship with the immediate families changes to a second level or priority while the marital relationship becomes the most important relationship of all.
I think we can help her family as a couple but only after we have taken care of the problems of our own.
Where am I wrong?

2006-08-15 04:50:13 · 12 answers · asked by migug 1 in Family

2006-08-15 04:50:02 · 5 answers · asked by lil1teen 1 in Friends

ok on paper i got a great boyfriend, he doesn't cheat or hit me, he has a good job, doesn't stay out all hours of the night, stays out of trouble and is he most loyal person i ever met. I love him and he loves me, he ahs been there for me through alot of crap, when i think anyone else would have turned there back on me ( i went through some real hard times nothing i brought on myself or anything like that) I mean our biggest argument is over video games, so i guess i'm a very lucky girl, but i still feel very unhappy.
i will never leave him, so please don't suggest that. He's not sweet or affectionate or nothing, when it comes to sex, i've been turned down more times than a stolen credit card, thats just how he is, i don't even care about the sex, its just another thing we don't have. i think maybe i just got spoiled by my last relationship(chaeting bastard) because i got so used to all the romance and sweet thing he did for me. How do I accept he's not like that and be happy

2006-08-15 04:49:58 · 27 answers · asked by M.C. Screwdriver 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you know what i mean....

2006-08-15 04:48:53 · 14 answers · asked by Reverand Ray 4 in Singles & Dating

wont take them back. My brother finally confessed to his wife that he was having sex with her mom and is angry because she kicked him out of the house. He is also angry because i am still friends with her. My relationship with her has nothing to do with him. I knew her before he did. I don't talk bad about my brother I am just there for her she just lost her mom and husband and she needs a shoulder to cry on. How do I get my selfish brother to understand I am not taking sides in something he put me in the middle of. ( I caught them at my house before but I made him tell her). I love my brother but wrong is wrong.

2006-08-15 04:48:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it would be good if u were between 13-15 email i f u wanna talk or w/e!!!

2006-08-15 04:48:01 · 3 answers · asked by Jenna H 2 in Singles & Dating

pm me for details

2006-08-15 04:47:45 · 25 answers · asked by sextherapist99 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 04:47:42 · 16 answers · asked by bubbles 2 in Singles & Dating

why?

2006-08-15 04:46:56 · 35 answers · asked by Reverand Ray 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 04:46:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

PUT ME IN THE HOSPITAL. I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART AND HE IS THE ONLY MAN I HAVE REALY HAD A REALATIONSHIP WITH. WE HAVE TWO CHILDREN WHOM I WOULD GIVE THE WORLD FOR. WE SEPERATED FOR ABOUT SIX MONTHS AND I JUST RECENTLY RETUNRED HOME THINKING HE HAD CHANGED AND AFTER ONLY TWO MONTHS THINGS ARE BACK TO THE WAY THEY WERE BEFORE AND HE RECENTLY JUST HAD A SPELL WHERE I HAD TO BE HOSPITALIZED . I KNOW WHAT PEOPLE READING ARE SAYING YOU IDIOT LEAVE HIM. BUT YOU SEE I STRUGGLED WHEN I LEFT AND HAD TO WORK TWO-THREE JOBS AND NEVER SAW MY CHILDREN. I MISSED OUT ON SO MUCH BECAUSE BETWEEN TRAVELING TIME AND WORKING I NEVER SAW THEM. I LOVE MY HUSBAND BUT IM TIRED OF FIGHTING WITH HIM AND HE CHEATS ALSO. HE DID ABOUT SIX MONTHS AGO THATS WHY I FINALLY LEFT. I JUST THOUGHT HE HAD CHANGED AND THAT OUR FAMILY COULD BE BACK TOGETHER.N OW I FEEL I HAVE MADE A MISTAKE. BUT I DONT KNOW IM SCARED TO BE WITHOUT HIM BECAUSE HE IS ALL I KNOW WE ARE NOW TRYING COUNSELING WILL IT WORK?

2006-08-15 04:45:20 · 25 answers · asked by candace c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does it bother you when a girl talks like "Oh My God!" ? sort of like valley girl voice

2006-08-15 04:44:53 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Our agreement was that he can have girlfriends over every other weekend when my children are with their dad. He broke up with his girlfriend of about 6 years who he has a baby with. Since February he's had one girlfriend who he was with for about a month and broke up, then he had another girlfriend he was with for about two months. Both have come over on the weekend and slept over. Now he has a new girlfriend of about 2 months and he wants to bring her over as well. I dont feel comfortable with all these different women coming to my home especially within such a short time period and I've told him so. He asked me if he can bring her over and asked him if he could wait until he's known her better. Am I over reacting?

2006-08-15 04:44:50 · 31 answers · asked by Try You 2 in Family

but i love him even tho he is a felon...i asked him about he said he already did the time but didnt keep in contact with his P.O. Im just really shocked and he said he wants to turn himself in..but hes looking at the least a year away...my mom wants me to turn him in..but im having his baby...and if he goes away i will be alone.. he as always been a "bad boy" since i can member but i didnt know he was that bad!! dont know what to do...

2006-08-15 04:44:30 · 36 answers · asked by crazyashleybaby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-15 04:44:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Either in sex or your in any other way?

2006-08-15 04:44:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have kissed twice and kown each other since frist grade she also live on block from me

2006-08-15 04:43:25 · 5 answers · asked by lpl 1 in Singles & Dating

am only 14 and my parents told me that am not allowed to go out with any1 becauze am too young but now am going out with some1 and i really like him so i wanna let my parents knowe but am scared to tel them because they mighte say that i have to break up with him or they might get angry.

2006-08-15 04:43:11 · 14 answers · asked by s_m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What does is make you think of?

2006-08-15 04:42:42 · 30 answers · asked by Reverand Ray 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 04:41:39 · 15 answers · asked by Jewells 5 in Marriage & Divorce

sam and i have been going out for a month, but he's going to dump me cuz i won't have sex with him.

2006-08-15 04:41:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating