but i love him even tho he is a felon...i asked him about he said he already did the time but didnt keep in contact with his P.O. Im just really shocked and he said he wants to turn himself in..but hes looking at the least a year away...my mom wants me to turn him in..but im having his baby...and if he goes away i will be alone.. he as always been a "bad boy" since i can member but i didnt know he was that bad!! dont know what to do...
2006-08-15 04:44:30 · 36 answers · asked by crazyashleybaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
umm its not COUNTRY its our COUNTY...
and how do i find out how much his heads worth...and he doesnt stay with me...and whats it matter what my race is???!?!
2006-08-15 04:54:25 · update #1
Reward $$$$$
The right thing to do is to have him turn himself in right now. If he is asking you to keep his secret you are now breaking the law.
If you love each other and work at it you can get through it.
Good Luck!!
2006-08-15 04:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by shredderb 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If this hurtsyour feelings, I will say I'm sorry now, and get it over with! But, what on this great green Earth is WRONG with you? County, COuntry, State, City, WHAT EVER! Your boyfriend is a criminal! This is no longer about you or him! Your having a child!! Do you want your child to grow up with parents who spent more time in jail then with him? I'm not telling you to leave your boyfriend, what I'm telling you is that he NEEDS to clean up his life before his child gets here! Turn him in! Tell him why you did it and step back and let him either be a boy or a man! A boy will throw a hissy and walk away! A real man will get upset but after you explain that you won't have the father of your child in prison for most of your childs life, he will get over it and take care of things. Honey, if he walks away, YOU DON"T WANT HIM! If he stands up and takes responsiblity for what he did wrong, HE'S A KEEPER! That is the kind of father you want for your child! You want a stand up guy who, YOU, and YOUR child, can look up to and count on! Stop being a child! You have one on the way! Give that baby every chance to live a safe, happy life, without the worry of never seeing his parents! YOU ARE NOT ALONE! You have family! Get a job, work hard while your expecting and be the responsible adult that baby needs. It doesn't really matter what others may think of you, but it does matter what YOU think of YOU! Can you live with yourself knowing that you will never be able to have a normal life near your family? YOur boyfriend will never be safe in a good paying job with this hanging over his head! Obviously he was a child when he made his mistakes, but he isn't one anymore, and neither are you! Grow up, get real, and stop whining! You don't have the time or the energy! That baby will be here sooner than you think and it will need you! Turn him in! If not for your sake do it for your child! Keep him and you may end up in jail yourself! When he has repaired the damage he has done you can both work on your relationship!
2006-08-15 05:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by wonderingmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok wow, that is a tough one. Well either way, he needs to be turned in somehow, because you don't want the father of your baby to be on the run do you? And if he really is only wanted for not seeing his probation officer, then it's not likely he will have too long of a sentence. Better to get it out of the way now, other than later when your baby will remember him not being around. This is only if you feel like you must stay with him. There are plenty of other men out there, you wouldn't be alone forever hun.
2006-08-15 05:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by kt367521 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I spray my opinion, I just have to let you know, that unless your b/f is a top-ranking Al-Qaida terrorist member, you're full of ca ca!
But then again, there is a slight chance he maybe....so in that case:
You have to admit it's your dumb*** fault for choosing, "bad boys."
It doesn't make any sense, girls like bad boys... yet, all the good ones, are those making millions when their older...
Damn, girls, are stupid.. What does it take to close your legs? Obviouslly, if you arn't mature enough to endure the consiquences from sex-- unprotected or not, such as having a steady job, steady income, being somewhat financially stable-- enough to be accepted to raise a child, and after you start working on your dreams, then you can be thinking about possibly marriage? Then.. after that, you can have a baby..
Think about the baby for a change-- and yet, now it's too late.
I tell young girls all the time exactly what I tell you-- but they just know it all don't they? Kind of like you in this case.
He should turn himself in. At least he's taking responsability, unlike someone else.
WAKE UP WOMEN/ YOUNG LADIES!!! JESUS!!!
--Rob
LOL I have to laugh at "harboring a fugitive!!" HELLO PEOPLE, THE UNITED STATES GOVERNMENT HAS BEEN HARBORING FUGITIVES FOR THE PAST 30 YEARS, -----> IE: 30 MILLION ILLEGAL ALIENS!!!
HAHA You guys... gotta be like 15 years old.. This forum makes no sense... back to politics and immigration...
2006-08-15 04:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by stealth_n700ms 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you and him should sit down somewhere no one can disturb you and you and him needs to decided what is best for you him and the baby. Then make a plan I understand that if he turns himself in now he will miss the baby being born. But you don't want to get in any trouble and you have a little one on the way. Just think what is best for the baby.
God bless you and good luck!!!!!!!
2006-08-15 05:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by K White 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you know he is a fugitive; if you continue to see him YOU can get into trouble for possibly harboring a fugitive. I dont think I would turn him in, but I wouldnt see him anymore. You dont want to be around him when the police come knocking down a door to get him. I understand you love him BUT get a grip- like you said you knew he was a bad boy when you got with him. You could have prevented yourself from being in this predictiment so now you have to do damage control and protect yourself and your unborn baby. Prepare to raise your child alone because he will eventually get caught. G' luck!
2006-08-15 04:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's like in the movie huh? Knowing your boyfriend is a most wanted and still loving him. Well how many movie do tell you that you can live happily in that kind of life? I seriously suggest that u should go to a safe place with your mom and turn him in. Don't be so naive that your bf will take care of you forever because he can't even take care of his own by now...
2006-08-15 05:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by jason j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he turns himself in he might not have to serve the full year. And besides that he should have been more honest with you. If he is jail when the baby comes, you have family you can make it until he gets out. So let him turn himself in. It would be better than they find him.
2006-08-15 04:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needs to turn himself in, now. If he doesn't, you should. It'll be worse for him the longer he waits, and therefore worse for you and baby. Get this out of the way so he can get a fresh start once he's back out.
What did he do? You may want to reconsider having a relationship with him depending...
2006-08-15 04:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by loshea65 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
turn him in.. do u want to be arrested for harboring a fugitive?? u have ur child to think about.. it's not like if he stays on the run that ur gonna live happily ever after.. he'll always be looking over his shoulder and so will u.. not only that but he won't be able to work legitimately.. how wil he provide for u??
thinking of ur child is the right thing to do, but u need to think about urself right now and do the right thing for ur unborn child.. u won't be alone.. u'll have ur baby and when he comes home he'll have a clean slate.. convince him to turn himself in so that u won't have to deal w/this burden...
2006-08-15 04:56:59 · answer #10 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋