i know most of u will say yes, but how can u feel close at a very intimate level if u havent gotten intimate yet?
2006-08-15 04:52:03 · 15 answers · asked by VanillaIce 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure Sex should wait till marriage. Physical intimacy is not a form of love should rather be the expression of that love which already exists.
2006-08-15 04:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by SoccerClipCincy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it is possible. because u want to be with that person on an emotional, mental, spiritual level, eventually you WILL consummate that thru the Physical act of sex. *but* u have to build all that other "junk" up first! if u don't have those things, u have an empty shell of a relationship. u have to truly be able to trust, love, give and receive respect, and communication, and use that "love" to fuel you to continue your commitment. i see sex as "icing on the cake"..something u can enjoy freely w/ your partner that you truly love. if u keep having sex that u don't build the other stuff up with, u can get Hurt. u can get Rejected. u can leave that person, or they can leave u. because sex is just sex until it is something more than just physical. then, and only then, is it truly an Intimate thing.
2006-08-15 05:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well of course you can love but you are right about intimacy, there will always be that wall there until both confide in each other to be able to see each other naked and do those passioante things to each other. Sex is a big part of a relationship no matter what some people may say and if you don't think you can wait or you don't think it healthy then leave that realtionship behind...
2006-08-15 04:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible to have love without sex among partners for certain reasons... like old age, sickness, male impotency (but there's Viagra!) and separation by distance brought about by circumstances such as job overseas. But for people (married people and partners of legal age in a consensual relationship) who do not have any of these reasons, why put something good like sex with love to waste. Sex doesn't necessarily means outright copulation. It could be oral sex, mutual masturbation, and mere touching and petting (which I consider expressions of intimacy). Like copulation, any of these could lead to orgasms as well. You will only realize how good sex is when you're old enough not to enjoy it! So enjoy sex (with love, cause I can't emphasize this enough!) while you're young and while you can. But please, be responsible! Practice safe sex and avoid unwanted pregnancies. And of course, you should be old enough (legal age) to go to that level of intimacy.
2006-08-15 05:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by bad day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im going to give you the predictable answer. Yes, it is but thats because I believe you should be married before you go and have sex. Its a hard question to answer, because I understand what your saying and Im not exactly sure. I think that intimacy is in the eye of the beholder. But they best sex object is not between your legs, its between your ears. Use that thing between your ears. Because once you have given yourself to that person you have lost apart of yourself.
Probly not much help, sorry. But hope it helped
2006-08-15 05:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and Sex is 2 COMPLETELY different feelings. Yes it's possible. Sex can make or break your relationship quick. Love won't. Sex can get pretty deep...lol, sorry for the pun, but Love is a much much deeper feeling...without love, sex is meaningless...just another *****.
2006-08-15 05:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by JUStin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very very hard to be that close with someone without more there. Without sex relationships can feel a lot more like close friendship, which is great, but can often lead to confusion, when someone wants more.
2006-08-15 04:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by bored_at_work 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you don't have to have sex with someone just to feel close to them. You can feel close to a person just by the way they look at you, the way they hold you, the way they kiss you,etc. Its all the passion you have for one another. Get creative it doesn't have to be sex.
2006-08-15 05:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by fire84 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being emotionally involved before being physically involved with someone is not a bad thing. That can always wait. To be able to become emotionally attracted first is way better.
2006-08-15 05:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sometimes all you need is a release and you don't necessarily have to be emotionally close to someone in order to achieve that.
2006-08-15 04:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by Jayna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋