Family & Relationships - 15 August 2006

I am at a total loss and have seeked friends advices and none can help me answer for many days and I hope some one here can help me with that.. its giving me too much distress and its taking a toll on my job as well.

We have a 7 year old daughter and she is very very attached to me (father). We have 50/50 custody of child and was seperated for 4years before we finally got a divorce this year. during my seperation i found someone else and got married right after i divorced. just a few days ago, i found out she's getting married and moving to the US with daughter.

I'm very upset over this issue of daughter moving away is becos' the utmost paramount issue to me is Giving The Best to her.

I want her to have the Best education and i think the US has got some pretty good schools but that would mean I will not be able to see her since I live half way round the world in Singapore.

2006-08-15 04:41:09 · 14 answers · asked by LG 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Its a totally different answer! They say its disqusting and sick??? So what is the difference between the two of them???

2006-08-15 04:40:32 · 27 answers · asked by bry7josh 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 04:40:17 · 13 answers · asked by shirly p 2 in Family

2006-08-15 04:38:54 · 42 answers · asked by Peter McKoy 2 in Singles & Dating

I have dated a guy off and on for the last year. nothing too serious because he traveled alot for work. I know who his mom is and over heard talking to someone the other day. I just found out his is married and has kids. I did not know this. but I heard his mom talking about that he was seperated and now there is another girl in another state who he dated too and she is pregnant too. do i just keep my pregnancy a secret and move on with my life. because its sound like he has a lot of drama and my child will make baby #4 for him as far as I know. he sounded like a really great guy when I met him and we started seeing each other. not anymore.

2006-08-15 04:38:50 · 28 answers · asked by jessi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Three years ago, I needed a car. I was stupid, but nevertheless, bought a car that really was above my means. I needed a cosigner. Mom to the rescue. Because she cosigned for my car, she lost out on her home refinance loan.
Now, I've paid a large portion of the car off. She was able to get her home loan. But her payments are more than she can afford. She makes it only because I'm living with her and paying half of the bills. She is also a bitter woman, and it's really tough living with her.
If I can no longer take living with her, should I feel bad leaving?

2006-08-15 04:38:45 · 14 answers · asked by Sagefrogg 1 in Family

My husband has suffered from anxiety and/or depression for years and recently it has been really bad. I'm 9 months pregnant and the stress is taking a huge toll on me. He will not take medication as he has always been against it but he does have an appt with a therapist tomorrow. I'm trying to be strong because when I get upset he gets worse but does anyone have any advice on how I can cope with this before I end up in counseling with him!?!

2006-08-15 04:38:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mom is still a really attracting women. She dresses sexy! meaing, seethough shirts, tight shirts and pants showing cleavage, legs...etc. etc....
My dad seems to love it...... He even brings her sexxier clothes...
Is it wrong???

2006-08-15 04:38:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Trying to make a long story short. Five years ago my mom found out her husband (my stepdad) was raping my 12 year old sister at the time and filed charges. He killed himself outside the courthouse and we tried to move on. Two years ago my mom found out her new boyfriend had been cheating on her and she broke up with him. A month later he died of melanoma cancer. We just went on cruise to the Caribean a week ago and she met a new guy. He has admitted to his weekly crack addiction and I found out last night that after a week of my mom knowing this guy he is moving 400 miles from his sisters house into hers. All of these guys that have been in her life since my father have been lowlifes and all been underneath her. She has struggled through a vicodin addiction and is 8 and a half months clean. She has done so much for me like buy me a 30,000 dollar car in June and raise me to be a productive adult. I love her so much but I don't know what to do anymore. don't want to go through this again

2006-08-15 04:38:09 · 3 answers · asked by tatrave 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 5'9 and good looking (not snobby) I dress well very polite and respect women with good conversation. So why do ladies who are taller or especially the ones who wear heels who I know i'm taller than turn me down. WTF am I supposed to wear lifts? I hate that makes me just want to be an azz now. What do I do?(In Casino Joe Pecsi looks good with his tall wife)

2006-08-15 04:37:59 · 7 answers · asked by Wiseguy 2 in Singles & Dating

her boyfriend wants to break up with her because she wont have sex with him until marriage (this is still teenage years) and she is mad. she is asking me for advice so i went the lazy way and asked yahoo answers

2006-08-15 04:37:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been dating this girl for almost a year. We get along great, however 3 weeks ago she cheated on me. She is clinically depressed and was in a depressed state, she told me about what she did and broke down into tears. Before this incident i thought she was the one, I still love her to death. But should i move on or try and work through this? The topic of marrage has come up before and she was the one who brought it up, but now she says its scares her to death. I am ready for marrage that is what i am looking for in a relationship, one that leads to marrage. But if she is now scared and cheated on me, should i forgive her and move foward or find someone who will treat me better? thanks for the advice guys.

2006-08-15 04:36:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 04:35:51 · 10 answers · asked by bucky182_sk8 1 in Friends

He says words right now but they're not quite intelligible. When will he put sentences together?

2006-08-15 04:35:10 · 4 answers · asked by hfacto 3 in Family

I met this guy, we became such good friends. I started liking him, and i ended up telling him. He said "I like you too, but not like that, i love you like a sister" things never got akward. Everyone who knows him tells me "he likes you a lot, I just can tell" He hugs me, tells me im pretty and always is asking me to do things. He likes this other girl. The only thing he has done is hug her. He never asks her to do anything, and she always has to call him (this guy always calls me). Im so confused. he acts one way, and says the other. Help me if you can!! =] thanks

2006-08-15 04:34:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I broke up with my bf almost a year ago, I invested in a vibrator, which I have been happily using ever since. I'm finally involved with someone and we're getting pretty serious sexually. Last night he was going down on me and I couldn't get off. I feel like I can't have an orgasm without the vibrator now (keep in mind that it has been my main source of pleasure for 11 months). Has this ever happened to anyone else? Without bringing it to bed with us, how can I get past this? Please please help!

2006-08-15 04:34:52 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just learned that my nephews had sex with each other, and they
don't feel guilty about it. But their fathers are very upset with them.
How can I put out the fire my nephews started?

2006-08-15 04:34:30 · 5 answers · asked by Dr. W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, last night my girlfriend was sraying some butt cream on my butt, by the way that stuff works, anyway. Then she said, "Your butt is so deformed! I'm breaking up with you." What should I do to get her back? She's says the only thing that I can do for her is get a new butt. and you know I can't do that. So help!

2006-08-15 04:33:53 · 4 answers · asked by trust_god25 1 in Singles & Dating

If it takes someone on the outside of your marriage to get to the bottom of the problem in your marriage don't you think that's another problem or is it just me. I thought whatever happens between the two should stay between the two, you work things out. And make your decision from there. Since when has it been okay to get a third-party to help.

2006-08-15 04:33:39 · 12 answers · asked by Toya J 3 in Marriage & Divorce

free dating site with no membership and lots of hot girls there to with pictures you can see of them.

2006-08-15 04:33:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi,

I just started looking at Engagement rings and there are so many choices out there, so I was wondering what would be a good price range to start with. I was thinking $1000-$1500, but I don't know if that is seen as being to cheap or not.

I'm looking for something that has a nice diamond in the middle and then her birth stone (amathist) on each side of the diamond.

2006-08-15 04:33:30 · 18 answers · asked by Jason 4 in Weddings

2006-08-15 04:33:05 · 12 answers · asked by C H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have found... sometimes if i dream something... it usually happens the next day

2006-08-15 04:32:16 · 12 answers · asked by ♥s!mply @m@z!ng♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

We are 40 and are expecting our first grandchild in 3 weeks. We do not want to be Granny and Grandpa and Nana and Pappy are taken by my mom and dad. Any ideas?

2006-08-15 04:32:08 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my mom and dad arent married but they were going to get married sometime soon but now one is kicking the other out all the time and yelling at each other all the time and i never see my mom because she is always out of town at meetings like i mean florida st louis and washington dc what should i do and i cant talk to either of them?

2006-08-15 04:32:06 · 4 answers · asked by ~Katie~ 2 in Family

He's 7 years old and acts completely helpless. He won't find his own clothes, open his own can of pop, clean his own glasses, or even at least make himself a simple peanut butter sandwich. He has no disorders, he's a perfectly capable child, yet he acts like he's still 3. He doesn't do anything he's told, he doesn't listen to anyone, and he doesn't eat supper if it's not something he absolutely LOVES, yet still expects dessert. He wants everything good, and not to have to do anything by himself. When told to do something on his own, he runs to another person to make THEM do it. Nobody refuses all together, so he always has SOMEONE to do his bidding. How can I make this stop? When I was 7 I could do all this and more, and so could our big brother. Our big brother could even make brownies and cook noodles on the stove by the time he was 7! So I think little brother can learn these simple tasks. (He's very spoiled by our dad)

2006-08-15 04:31:48 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

GF to have a threesome with her and her BF. What should she do?

2006-08-15 04:31:12 · 8 answers · asked by hoboken134 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 04:31:00 · 13 answers · asked by The Dude 1 in Singles & Dating

is there something wrong with the relationship?

2006-08-15 04:30:45 · 10 answers · asked by k-la 2 in Singles & Dating

Being raped.

2006-08-15 04:30:34 · 18 answers · asked by Here's Danny 2 in Friends