Family & Relationships - 15 August 2006

My bf went out of town for three weeks and left his cats alone in the house. After he'd been gone for 4 days, I asked him,"Who's going to take care of the cats while your gone?" He said,"I was hoping you would." Usually one of his friends takes care of them while he's gone, but he told me he didn't want her in his house cause she's kind of nutty. I live 45 minutes from him and can only make it over there 1x per week. After the first week, I fed them and changed their litter boxes. The second week, I came in, and there was poop everywhere in the house, and some barf. I changed the litter boxes again , and fed the cats, but there was no way I was going to pick up all those turds. I am so disgusted that my boyfriend isnt more responsible with his pets. Is this a sign that he's totally crazy and disgusting. I have a feeling it's not the first time this has happened. I almost want to break up with him after 1 and a half years.

2006-08-15 08:10:36 · 8 answers · asked by gerber baby 3 in Singles & Dating

Doesn't need flowers and neither fancy stuff. What would you get your mother on her 59th Birthday.

2006-08-15 08:10:28 · 11 answers · asked by BATISTA 4 in Family

We are from 2 different countries and our culture/communication styles are becoming more and more different. We have tried couples therapy and do not know what the next possible step could be.

2006-08-15 08:10:14 · 11 answers · asked by LAURA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im probaly going to end having to fight someone and i was just wondering were would i hit them to make it hurt the most?

2006-08-15 08:10:12 · 10 answers · asked by whyte_choclate13 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it attractive when i a girl is very active with extreme sports? i snowboard, white water and ocean kayak, white water raft, rock climb, hike, gymnastics, soccer, snowmobile, ect; ect. im so outgoing and will try almost anything like sky diving or something like that. im also going surfing tomorrow and im taking up wake boarding and maybe quading. i love to do all of these things but i cant help but wonder if guys are more into girly girls. i love to get dressed up and i put make- up on and i wear abrocrombie and fitch, hollister, american eagle, dresses and skirts all of the time, and guys think im hot (not trying to brag AT ALL just trying to give u an idea of me) so id like to think of myself as a little bit of both a girly girl and a tom boy, but what do u guys like better? or do u like a mix?

2006-08-15 08:09:19 · 8 answers · asked by sunkssed 2 in Singles & Dating

IF YOU CAN, I WANT YOUR NUMBER!!! LOL

2006-08-15 08:08:52 · 57 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Singles & Dating

oh well my bf and his family wants him to marry with me. i met him by a friend of his that came dominican once and he introduced me to him. we had been talking for long and After a year of LDR, hes finally coming to 'meet me' (but we already had seen each other by camera and talkin everyday over the phone) but i know that physical contact is different. the thing is that his family wanna help me and they still make an appointment for me to get a visa and go and visit them too... im workin and studying and this is really excited.. sometimes obviobsly i find it weird but also i just think im lucky. he loves me to death and his family too..

do u think this is weird or this is just something i must feel "lucky" about?

he and his family are soO good to me cuz i've been such too much drama and bad things in my past and he really appreciates me and wish me to dont suffer anymore.. i have my fam and they love me but i feel this ppl are great for me too...

2006-08-15 08:08:35 · 20 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Weddings

my husband is going out with his couisins every fridays and saturdays and sometimes he doenst call me to let me know that he's ok and he comes back at 5 or 6am and he takes my car and he doesnt have a license he got a prepaid cell and he did not tell me about it untill yesturday when i told him im fed up with his crap and he wants to work things out with our marriage but he says with the condition that he keeps going on on fridays and saturday's. the thing is that i get to stay home and do nothing i go shopping and come back at 10pm and he is still not home he says that he likes to go out his boys becuase he works verry hard and he desrves it and also that he can spend time with me on sunday-thursday becuase he works grave yard shift so i dont sleep with him and when he goes out he doesnt even come to sleep untill is day time what should i do ? do i put my foot down and say no stop or hang out and keep quite and live with it? he tells me to deal with it!if you love me!

2006-08-15 08:08:11 · 8 answers · asked by bronze23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How well do you know ur lover?

2006-08-15 08:07:51 · 10 answers · asked by ladylove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We now have 5 kids, the last one being an accident. There is no spontanaity to our relationship anymore because of the fear of getting pg again. He wants me to go get surgery but it is so much easier on the man to have the procedure.. Any adviuse?

2006-08-15 08:07:16 · 8 answers · asked by Koozie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-15 08:06:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been apart for a whlie and finally be back together again. Just some fun, creative, romantic ideas I can do.

2006-08-15 08:06:31 · 24 answers · asked by texanmedic 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Married men - when you are away from home, or when your wife is critically ill for a long time; who do you think about when you master-ba-te? Is it your wife or some other lady?

Married women - when you are away from home, or when your husband is critically ill for a long time; who do you think about when you master-ba-te? Is it your husband or some other man?

2006-08-15 08:06:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

get rid of it then kicks me out of our house and then says call on the day you have it! What should i do?

2006-08-15 08:06:04 · 8 answers · asked by jdsb121305 2 in Family

i know this is a matter of opinion, not a matter of fact, but...

i am in a relationship, and i love the person very much, but i know im not "in love". the sex is great, we get along, were best friends, but....im not in love and i know that this person is very much in love with me. is it wrong for me to be in this relationship?

2006-08-15 08:05:47 · 24 answers · asked by an-toe-knee 1 in Singles & Dating

I once slept with this white girl and made the mistake of giving her my home phone number. she was a kool girl, but she kept calling me and calling me ALL the time! She kept saying she wanted "us" to be together again. so i ask you, is the old saying true?

2006-08-15 08:05:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is the situation.. I am bi and I am in a long term relationship with this guy. We've been together for 2 years now. I am miserable in this relationship and would like to end it, but we live together and I'm afraid to leave because I don’t know if I can make it on my own.

Six months into our relationship I told him I was going to have sex with a good friend of mine from high school and if he wanted he could watch but not touch. He agreed and she came over and I lost my lesbian virginity. Lol.

Over the past year and a half I have wanted less and less to do with him and now we go weeks without sex because I am not attracted to him.

I'm starting to wonder if I'm totally gay or if he just isn’t the one for me.

Please help. Serious answers only.

2006-08-15 08:05:12 · 4 answers · asked by Steph 4 in Singles & Dating

Am from Lubbock and driving to Abeliene tomorrow to look for dresses, both bridesmaid and bridal gowns; any specific shops I should look at? Thanks!

2006-08-15 08:04:02 · 4 answers · asked by redraidess 1 in Weddings

i like rodney with piper better and i wanna know if some other people likes tham too. because im not a real fan of cappy and rodney

2006-08-15 08:03:51 · 4 answers · asked by sdfasfasdf 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you kiss properly, you know open mouth and tounge? I want lots of detail! i really need to know!

2006-08-15 08:03:48 · 30 answers · asked by Millieee. 2 in Singles & Dating

do u think it is sexy for a guy to still be a virgin into his 20's...what would u think about it? would it be a turn on or turn off? I'll let u decide...

2006-08-15 08:02:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

both in the 7th grade 13 and 13 and we have kissed but i still need help but
I dont how to ask her
yes I look like my avatar

2006-08-15 08:02:32 · 7 answers · asked by lpl 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister has been on maternity leave and is due to go back to work in January. The problem is that she now really wants to stay at home to look after the 2 girls. She is in a wellpaid job, my brother in law not so. Should she sacrifice the financial benefits (saving for the girls university and give them a better start in life) and risk getting into debt or stay at home.

2006-08-15 08:02:14 · 19 answers · asked by Daisy 2 in Family

okay, well my family and i have been planning to go to mexico for vacation, just my mom, dad, brother and me and we've never had a just-us vacation someone always comes along because my mom's side of the family is really close. well as i said, we have planned for thois and we leave tomorrow. So now my aunt says that she already bought two airline tickets for my two cousins to go to mexico with us without asking. Do i have a reason to be mad? because most of the time now, my emotions get in the way of me realizing what i should really be feeling...help please thanks

2006-08-15 08:01:59 · 66 answers · asked by melly 4 in Family

let me start with I was always a good mother, no complaints from my exhusband until i started dating. he has turned me over to dhs, i have a counsler that comes to my house once a week, but she also goes to his house. my ex married a spoiled brat that does not care about her own kids feeling much less my kids feeling, she has turned her children against there father because he left her for another woman, then she tore my family apart. i am agood christian person, but they always find things that make me look bad. this all startedin july 05, i fought for my marriage for about 4 mo. and have fought for my kids up to this point. i have remarried and im very happy, but i dont see it getting any better until i get my ex and new wife out of my life, they have brain washed my children, and has told me he will fight me until he gets them. i dont think i can take much more

2006-08-15 08:01:55 · 27 answers · asked by kar e 1 in Family

first start with a going around to hers just chilling talking for a bit then taking a long walk through the park and having a picnic then going around the all the shops see what she likes and buying it for her then it's back too mine where i have made a three course meal and at the end i recite a poem ok thats my plan what do u think anything i should add to that.

2006-08-15 08:01:30 · 10 answers · asked by chaopred 3 in Singles & Dating

can anyone recall if they feel the medication during injection into their body? I don't really recall? My wife says she can feel the injection. Any opinions?

2006-08-15 08:01:23 · 15 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-15 08:00:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told my friend if I was ever to get married my wedding dress would be green, purple, or maybe blue. But she freaked out and said that it's tradition to choose white.

2006-08-15 07:59:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok; complicatd question but: Should I ask my best (girl) friend's best (girl) friend if MY (afforementioned, lol) best (girl) friend likes me? And is she likely to tell the truth? (since they are best friends)?

In otherwords should I use a third party?

2006-08-15 07:59:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating