Family & Relationships - 15 August 2006

2006-08-15 07:58:39 · 38 answers · asked by Rhonda N 2 in Singles & Dating

Im not talking about specific advice, but more general advice.

As an example, I just suggested to a girl

"Whenever you are emotional, or whenever you do anything really, always consider what you want to achieve out of it. Consider the goal, before you consider the action."

I obviously think that is good advice, otherwise I would not have given it.... You get what I'm looking for anyway, could you please tell me some good general advice????

Thanks everyone!
J

2006-08-15 07:58:35 · 10 answers · asked by Jeremy D 5 in Friends

I thought Richard traveled all the time for his job. After dating him 9 yrs I recently found out he had another family in TN. I was never allowed in TN because he said his parents did not like me. I really did not know them. I found out on line he was hiding the fact that he was travelling to TN when he said he was working. Seeing an ex and her kids he told me had moved and hadn't seen in 6 yrs. I busted him and he said it was my fault he did not tell me. They knew all about me including the fact I am HIV positive and have been for 13 yrs. He blames the break up on me saying I should have trusted him that he was not sleeping with the Mom. I think if he lied about the kids he's lying about the Mom. Heck the 21 yr old daughter threatened me for messing with "her family" I didn't know anything about her or her mom. Why is it my fault. I figured the "homewrecker" is the one that knew the man had another home. But if she thinks it's OK let her have him. Any ideas on why he blames me?

2006-08-15 07:58:28 · 4 answers · asked by d m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a new boyfriend. I think he's great. Things are going good and he treats me really well. But sometimes (not too often) I get second thoughts about our relationship.

What bothers me is that he seems too invested in us, and I guess I have a bit more casual approach. I'm a bit turned off by his utter dedication at such an early stage. But maybe I'm just not used to being with such a great guy. Before him, I was in an 8-year relationship where the guy wasn't good to me at all.

So what's wrong with me? Could the fact that I don't find the guy super handsome have something to do with it too? I know....so many questions...

2006-08-15 07:57:57 · 46 answers · asked by CC 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm so sad b/c my boyfriend had sex with my bestfriend but i guess if i'm stupid to stay with him its on me right

2006-08-15 07:57:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guess and i will give you 10 points if you are right.

2006-08-15 07:57:05 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For some reason, my nickname appeared on a question from Q and A Genie, stating that I wanted to have cyber sex with him. This is not true!!! What can I do?

2006-08-15 07:57:03 · 7 answers · asked by *autumn*rustle* 3 in Singles & Dating

The plan was for me to get a good new job, move all our stuff to a new state, and get an apartment until a house could be found. The wife and 2 kids would follow. Now my wife is deciding she wants to stay with her mother indefinitely. The wife is having post-partem depression and is not easy to talk to or rationalize with, and I am not happy not having my family with me. I held up my end of the bargain. It is difficult working on the marriage from afar. I am having doubts about the marriage also. I have been paying for all the family's normal expenses and medical expenses still, yet my family is being extorted from me. This has been going on for 3 months and I am getting resentful and losing patience. I am wondering if I should be talking to a lawyer. I've been to marriage counseling, but that did not help much. I really want to keep my family together, but I don't know what to do. The love for my wife is dying because of this. I am not getting to see my newborn or my older child.

2006-08-15 07:55:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Four months ago I found out that my husband cheated on me a year ago. I also found out that he did it again with a woman he used to work with. He says he did it because he was frustrated with me becauce I don't initiate affection. The reason I'm not affectionate is because he's mean most of the time. Who wants to hold hands or kiss someone who's mean? When ever we do have sex it's because he started it. The sex we have is good. I just can't look past this betrail. I do love him. I sent the woman he used to work with an email to get some answers and to try to get closure and it back fired. She made it seem like it was my fault because I was not submissive to him. She even gave me addvice from the Bible. She didn't even appoligize. I love my husband but I hate him at the same time. How do you get over something like this? How do I trust him again? BTW we've got 4 kids together and he's in the Army. I only started working 2 months ago. What do you think I should do? Help

2006-08-15 07:54:57 · 67 answers · asked by vitamin D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's just say my sister is....special....

2006-08-15 07:54:35 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is it bad that i dont want to date ever again or be ne thing more then friends with guys? and no im not into women! I just have lost all my desire to date.... whats wrong with me?

2006-08-15 07:54:31 · 14 answers · asked by funlovingcaligurl 2 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 girls that i like but one girl says she isn't interested in goin out yet but i really like her and another guy likes her and and whenever she mentions his name it pisses me off but i try and get over it. This first girl also makes it feel like she doesn't care but i won't quit. The other girl on the other hand likes me alot and i barely talked to her this summer like we barely started talking and what sucks is that she likes me and i like her but i have stronger feelings for this other girl like bad. This girl that likes me when she tells me about guys liking her i just laugh but when i hear it from the girl that i have feelings for i get mad so ppl help me out here plz

2006-08-15 07:54:20 · 10 answers · asked by Lucas C 1 in Singles & Dating

that would be sooo funny!

2006-08-15 07:54:03 · 14 answers · asked by angelOo 1 in Friends

She is 18 and moved in with a guy she met who is 25 yrs old, still married and has a 3 yr old child. This all happened the same week she graduated high school. She called me this AM and asked for her insurance card to go to the doctor because she says she cannot sleep at nite and wants a sleeping pill. I went to where she lives and gave her the card and noticed cut marks on her forearms. She is back to self mutilating. I am not sure what is going on. She has a history of self mutilation and a hx of manipulation to get what she wants and I am not sure which this is because she does not live with me. I suspect since the cuts are very superficial, she may be doing it to manipulate her 25 yr old boyfriend. She has had extensive counseling and the therapist has informed me this self mutilation may be manipulation for attention.
So, I took her the insurance card. Do I just forget this or what? I finally lost it totally and told her how disappointed I was and implored her to get home

2006-08-15 07:54:02 · 5 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-15 07:52:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-08-15 07:52:06 · 9 answers · asked by kutiepifernanda10 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 07:52:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I gave up everything for the love of a woman and she took me for everything I had maybe even my life

2006-08-15 07:51:57 · 32 answers · asked by Robert M 1 in Singles & Dating

I live with a roommate and our lease will be up at the end of November. Someone has asked me to move in with them at that time, and that's what I want to do. How do I bring it up to my roommate? I don't want to make him upset, but I would rather live with the other person.

2006-08-15 07:51:18 · 7 answers · asked by Samantha 2 in Friends

2006-08-15 07:51:01 · 5 answers · asked by Karen B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Some women love to have semen ejaculated on them and others think that it is the worst thing ever and can't believe other women like it. It seems that no women feel so-so about *** play.

2006-08-15 07:50:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-15 07:50:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-08-15 07:50:40 · 19 answers · asked by kit kat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've came out of some bad relationships in the past and lately i've noticed a growing fear/paranoia of rejection.
I just started dating (about a month) a sweet guy, and for some reason I'm constantly paranoid - like that he's purposely not answering my calls, when something comes up he's lying ect...
He's done NOTHING for me to think this way, and actually does the opposite, spends a lot of time with me and complains when we can't see each other or I leave early because of work ect..

I havn't told him that I feel like this because we're still so new.. so any ways I can calm my nerves? Can't keep thinking these thoughts...

2006-08-15 07:50:17 · 5 answers · asked by attila 6 in Singles & Dating

Do you beleive in domestic discipline between couples and who should be the one to administer the discipline and why?

2006-08-15 07:49:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

....might want to be careful if your better half is watching,lol!!

2006-08-15 07:49:50 · 22 answers · asked by juslookin 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 07:49:48 · 16 answers · asked by john_0502000 3 in Singles & Dating

are you waiting for a friend,lover,husband,or future love to be released from prison? is so, how do you deal with it? when your already married?? but you love this person in prison too?

2006-08-15 07:49:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-08-15 07:49:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 07:48:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings