Discipline bwtween couples?

Question

Do you beleive in domestic discipline between couples and who should be the one to administer the discipline and why?

This is primarily a relationship question..domestic discipline ought not be sexual.

Answer 1

I think as long as you have an understanding in a relationship of whats allowed and whats not allowed thats a discipline by itself. Its means you have something to live up to in the relationship and adhere to. Discipline should be determined by the two persons in the relationship. Sure, mistakes can be made, but its up to the couple themselves to deal with it. A mistake made in a relationship though committed by one person affects both parties. Discipline dished out can be emotional, physical or mental. My point is discipline (to me) are the rules and regulations of a relationship, if you break one you know you have to pay. Its kinda like knowing up front that there are consequences if you mess up. In a way it encourages you to do good by the relationship whenever you can.

Answer 2

Is ur question. Do I believe in spouses discipllining each other? If so, the answer is no. But really, don't couples employ a form of it anyway? I mean, if ur spouse does something u don't approve of, u argue, or do something they don't approve of, so then they may not do that thing u didn't like anymore. Rilght? But no one should be admlinistering any kind of discipline to their spouse! They're ur spouse, not ur kid! And if u have a parent child relationship with ur spouse, change it now! Because u guys will take on the roles, and the one being treated like a child WILL rebel...making matters worse.

Answer 3

Domestic discipline? That's a new one. I've never heard the term before. I guess I'm wondering what adult will stand there and let themselves get punished (or worse, hit) for something that someone else feels is a violation of the relationship. I remember spankings from my parents and always felt that if I was their size, I'd strike back at them. LOL I can't see me allowing anyone to hit or punish me.

Answer 4

Whatever floats your boat. If the discipline is not going to be mutual then it is up to the couples to work out who should do the deed. Of course to be fair if it's going to be mutual you should get an outside party to administer it. Because for a male/female couple the mans physical strength will make it unfair for the woman.

Answer 5

Have you ever heard of the saying ,"My way or the Highway?" lol Just kidding!In case you haven't that means my way or no way,! You mean "discipline" like when a child misbehaves ? Timeouts? What are you asking? Is this a "control" issue? you have to do what the other person says or you get punished?What kind of punishment? If it's physical what the he-- is going on?No one should be able to control another person in a relationship! If it gets to the point where one or the other has a problem with the others behavior and its unacceptable then it's time to split!

Answer 6

No I don't believe in Discipline between couples!!! Only the person's parents should discipline them, either male or female (especially females). That's domestic violence!!!

Answer 7

If a spouse is immature enough to need discipline on a regular basis, they probably are too immature to get married. If you're talking about physical discipline, the answer is 'no, that's way uncool'. If you're talking about things like instructing a spouse not to spank a kid, that's ok in small doses.

Answer 8

No, a couple does not need to be disciplined. If it comes to that, they really shouldn't be together. Man, I wish somebody would try it!

Answer 9

No. Couples are partners, they should be equals, so there should be no discipline unless of course it is self discipline!

Answer 10

No I don't, all of us have values and personal judgements based from our logic, if you feel the other one needs discipline then just tell him/her the areas for improvement.