When I was a child, I was sexually molested by some known people whom I still see occasionally. During my preteens, I didn't feel quite comfortable with my own father. Nothing really happened, but I was still aware of some amount of indecency in him. Also, I've witnessed a lot of infidelity happening between my parents, and each time it's my father who was cheating on my mother. As young as I was, I recorded all these in my mind rather subconsciously. I still remember the women, my mother's tears and all those times she would tell us these things for she also had nobody she could talk to about it. I have an older brother, but I don't think he was as affected as I was. Even recently, my Dad had something close to an affair with someone younger than even me! Now I'm 22 and pretty much an adult, but I still can't shake these things off my mind. My family is still together and we appear like we have forgotten everything. But the truth remains that I haven't. I have huge rows with my father
2006-08-15
07:38:49
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