I am not clingy, and completely agree that people should spend time apart and have seperate interests, but it irks me because he is very flirty and charasmatic, women love him, he's an amazing dancer... I dont doubt his intentions, of hanging out with his single boys, and loving me...But it still makes me insane with jealousy. Ugh.
2006-08-15 07:40:32 · 16 answers · asked by Lyric 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think about it. If he goes out I go out too.
If he can cheat so can I.
Thats part of loving someone- that includes trust and respect going both ways.
And if he respects you he'll know that you're a catch and that you can get alot of guys but you choose to be with him. And he TRUSTS that you choose to be with him. And it goes the other way around as well...
The guy I'm seeing goes out dancing all the time. Without me. With his single guy friends. Doing god knows what.
But I don't concern myself with that, because when I go out with a group of people I could do whatever I want but I CHOOSE not to. So, if you trust his love for you than just believe in that.
2006-08-15 07:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree. It sucks you want him to have fun and you trust him but you don't trust the other women out there. The ones that just wanna take someones man because they can. Its hard to let him go out but your gonna have to do it. And know in your heart he is always coming home to you and no one else.
2006-08-15 07:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all about trust. My wife and I go out together, we go out individually as well. My wife always tell me I flirt too much to, but it is honestly all Innocent. My wife doesn't have a problem with it, because she does it too.
It is all in the trust.
2006-08-15 07:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by Highroller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always hard to have a flirtatious bf
but youjust have to learn how to trust
i let my bf go out all the time
and he always tells me about the hot girls that he sees and that flirts w/ him
and im cool with it
because i kno im number 1
and u probably are to ur man
if ur worried that ur not spendin enough time w/ hime then
go out make him feel special
remind with why he loves you so much
dont be paranoid ok
2006-08-15 07:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by tb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like it. But then again, I don't have to like it. I figure tho, that if I want to be able to go out, then he needs to be able to do the same. I am jealous and sniff him down once he gets home. And you can bet I'm gonna check his cell phone too.
2006-08-15 07:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by bjsmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hanging out at a bar or playing poker with his friends is one thing (and it needed), but guys only go dancing to meet girls. If girls were not there, guys would never go.
2006-08-15 07:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally don't mind as long as i get to go out as well. being jealous is normal. that just mean you really do care. if you trust him then try not to let it bother you. when he goes out...go out on your own and have fun. your not getting any were by staying home and driving your self crazy thinking about it.
2006-08-15 07:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by DoTi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get upset when I don't like where he's going or who he's going with. We all have friends of our boyfriends that we just can't stand and I would rather have him go out without those individuals.
2006-08-15 07:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that you don't trust him. You don't trust the girls around him. Remember, they can only try. It's up to your man to make the right decision and for you to have faith in your man.
2006-08-15 07:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine rarely does. He used to a few years ago and I never had a problem with it. I am totally secure in myself and in our marriage.
2006-08-15 07:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋