Men & Women who cheat in committed relationships.?

Question

1. Do you think it should be obvious to your spouse that your cheating and they are just clueless ?
2. Do they suspect something is not right or do they have no clue ?
3. If open marriages were more common and accepted, would you rather your marriage or relationship be open rather than you cheating ?

Answer 1

1. sometimes its obvious but one can never tell at first

2. sometimes they know but sometimes they dont

3. i rather it be open if it were more common and accepted

i cheated twice and me and the missus are still together, she forgave me

Answer 2

Why get married if that is going to be the case. Just stay single and date each other and then if that is the way both parties want it, then so be it. I personally feel that you should be faithful to your wife or husband. Wouldn't it be sad if everyone knew your made was running around on your, but you, and visa versa. You may say you don't mind, but wait and see, you will be singing another tune, especially when children arrive. A SICK thing to impose on a child too, what are you thinking. Go to church and get involved in the ways of the Bible and then maybe you will feel differently. This sort of thing just is nothing but going down a path of hurt and destruction. I am sure Satan is laughing his head off about you thinking this is the "cool" way to live. Ask God to help you pull out of this crazy idea. I do not believe in "open marriages", open for what? It is stupid, and the wife will know, it is just something you can pick up on, when your loved one is cheating. Try it and you will not have that loved one much longer.

Answer 3

The way I see it is that anyone cheats in a commited relationship THINKS they are missing something in their relationship. They believe that the person they are with just isnt the same since they got together. That's a lie a person stays the same no matter how much their partner tries to change them. All cheating is, like i said they believe they are missing something and they want to try and find that with someone else which ends up hurting both themselves and their relationships and sometime the families.

Answer 4

A) Don't get married if you dont think you can be faithul.

2) What is the difference between question 1 and 2? Its the same question.

D) It is "you're"... not "your"

Answer 5

Open Marriages were at one time the norm, monotheistic religious morasses dictated monogamy in most cases. If you don't think you own, or have the right to own your partner, then sex is sex, and love is love.