my friend(girl) had suddenly stopped talkin to me and refuses to tell the problem.. but she looks like she is missing me
i found out from her friends that her bf told her not to talk to me or else he will dump her!!!
what should i do now? [im a boy]
2006-08-15 07:41:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
meet her personally and tell her that her bf is jealous about us and tell her to dump him instead as he is not a nice person
2006-08-16 22:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Prakash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from what I understand she loves her bf very much and wants to do for her but she also wants to stay friends with you. Her bf is jealous and probably thinks you are trying to take her away from you, which most likely you are not. I don't know if you would like to be more than just friends with her just give her a little space and maybe she will wake up and realize her bf is just a very jealous person which could lead to violence. Just know one day she will come around.
2006-08-15 14:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by Midnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she's following her bf cause she doesn't want to lose him. She hasn't realized that a good friend is priceless. Keep being a friend, but give her space. she will come to realize what she's missing. You could probably just tell her that you miss the old her, and was wondering what has caused the change (as if you didn't know, cause she didn't tell you). Trust me....if she is missing you, that will hurt her enough to bring her back to her senses
2006-08-15 14:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by LoneWolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey red,
I guess that you could talk to her boy friend and tell him that he doesn't have anything to worry about; that you're just friends, nothing more. But, is that really true? In most cases it isn't.
Another thing that you could do is just tell her that when she's ready to be friends again, that you'll be there for her, and not to worry. Give her the space that she needs.
You should really concentrate on your own relationships and not get involved with other's.
--Rick
2006-08-15 14:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm,
The bf is jealous and insecure. Why not ask her to let him at least meet you (in a group setting) maybe then he will feel okay about you just being friends. No one should ever tell or threaten someone to not see someone or they will dump them. It all points back to that persons insecurities in that relationship.
2006-08-15 14:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jeffrey S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be cool about it, young women have to learn about this kind of thing. Any guy that orders her around like that won't last unless she's got self-esteem issues. If she stays with him, then just pray for her. And don't take it personally, she's just young and hasn't learned that lesson yet.
2006-08-15 14:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know dude that's a tricky one what ever u do you must handle it with care.try to tell her how you feel about it but don't run down her bf cos that will turn her against you.
2006-08-15 17:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by Craig E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get her alone to see what he ssaid to her and tell her that you were friends before he came along why should you have to stop being friends. I hope it works out.
2006-08-15 16:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by brownsuga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her boyfriend to grow up! So what if she wants to talk with you.. you are her friend.
2006-08-15 14:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by kat81886 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she deserves a better bf and leave her a phone message talking bout that
2006-08-15 14:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by :):):) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋