I gave up everything for the love of a woman and she took me for everything I had maybe even my life
2006-08-15 07:51:57 · 32 answers · asked by Robert M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't explain myself to clearly. What I meant as of losing everything I meant that I lost my children which I had custody of. I was married to a drunk for 25 years and finally was able to get away with my children. I just recently lost my oldest to an
accident. Now I lost my other children due to the fact I fell in love with a woman that well just feeding off my emotions and my recent loss. Money can be replaced my children can not. Thanks everyone for your response's. I will take them into consideration
2006-08-15 10:22:25 · update #1
she obviously doesn't see how much you care for her, or doesnt deserve you. geez, after all that I cant imagine how hard it may be to start having doubts... is she really worth it? if she isnt, get your stuff back and move on. but dont take back your old life, get a new one. and this time, dont.... " Trying to make someone fall in love with you is just as useless and impossible as trying to controll who you fall in love with". enough said. btw. i really like how you capitalize the word Love.
2006-08-15 07:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by sugar4sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you've written this question, so no one has taken your life. Although it may certainly feel like it. You will love again and you will share trust again. Never let any other person have so much control over your situation that you would want to take your life. Depression is one thing and this is situational, but the sun still shines and you still wake up everyday. Learning to let go of things you can't control, like other people, will ease your suffering.
After all suffering is ONLY the DIFFERENCE between what you WANT and what really IS. If you ackowledge/accept what IS--you will not suffer. This doesn't inhibit you from having dreams and aspirations, but take them one day at a time!
best wishes!
2006-08-15 08:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by tharedhead ((debajo del ombú)) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, people act like if someone steps out of their lives then they can't go on living! So she took "stuff". What's the big deal...you can always get "stuff". So you wanna end your life because of a jerk...haven't you ever lost anyone? Grow up and live your life. My goodness live is worth living not because of anyone person...don't you have goals or enjoy anything else? This person wasn't your life and if you thought that she was then you need help anyway. People will always come and go in your life, but the most important is to love and trust God and be true to who you are.
...and no I am not a bible kind of person, but I do love God and just know that he loves you too!
2006-08-15 08:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by toobusy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life goes on, we all go through tough patches and think we've hit rock bottom. It sucks after a breakup but I assure you their are women out there that won't do that to you. You just have to wait and meet the right one. Give it some time and you'll start thinking how insignificant this moment is. Life is full of ups and downs and you can't give up after one of the down points. Hang out with your friends meet new people, explore a world you haven't been in for awhile. There is plenty of things out there that will have you enjoying yourself and being depressed will be a thing of the past. DONT GIVE UP!! IT WILL GET BETTER!!
2006-08-15 07:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by Go Cats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only seems like nothings left.....don't fall into the trap of feeling sorry for yourself. Just chalk it up to experience and get on with life.
Just think of the Katrina victims who lost everything and I do mean everything. In some cases one or more family members along with home, vehicle, clothes, and job, Not only that but the whole community-in a nut shell-a whole way of life gone forever.
But you should never give up and least of all for a woman like that.
2006-08-15 08:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Madeamove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let a woman put those kind of thoughts in your head. Some woman are just scamers, you need a good woman (they are hard to come by) Just pray for the Lord to get you through this time, THIS TOO SHALL PASS! You'll be fine. You've worked your way up before you can do it again, just be more carefull of who you put your trust in.
2006-08-15 07:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by sammyw1024 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should go on living!! LIFE IS GOOD!! You met up with a woman who will get hers when the time comes. You didn't deserve that. Take baby steps and do little things that make you happy.
2006-08-15 07:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by Bingo's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey..life is full of mean nasty people...my ex got everything but so what.. my value and yours is much greater than what we own or our possesions...you are more valuable than your former relationship.You are greater and more valuable than any of those things. you have a future and you can live that future with your head held high and some where along the road you will find a really good person who will love you...but you must first recognise your own worth.
2006-08-15 08:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just see how big is the controlling power of the women. You are completely in illusion or let say living in the clouds. I would never give up my time for reading for a bit of sensuality - the association of woman.
Please, chant Hare Krishna and be happy.
Type in and visit "bhaktivedanta108" the first site in the google result.
2006-08-15 07:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by Nitai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry this happened to you....I know its hard to believe right now..but you WILL be okay.My advice is to STOP ALL contact with her..and get yourself some counseling. I can promise you...We are not ALL like that.There are still good,decent women out there.Find one that deserves you,ok?
I wish you ALL the BEST!!! Take Care!
2006-08-15 08:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by mrssmokestack003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋