oh well my bf and his family wants him to marry with me. i met him by a friend of his that came dominican once and he introduced me to him. we had been talking for long and After a year of LDR, hes finally coming to 'meet me' (but we already had seen each other by camera and talkin everyday over the phone) but i know that physical contact is different. the thing is that his family wanna help me and they still make an appointment for me to get a visa and go and visit them too... im workin and studying and this is really excited.. sometimes obviobsly i find it weird but also i just think im lucky. he loves me to death and his family too..
do u think this is weird or this is just something i must feel "lucky" about?
he and his family are soO good to me cuz i've been such too much drama and bad things in my past and he really appreciates me and wish me to dont suffer anymore.. i have my fam and they love me but i feel this ppl are great for me too...
2006-08-15 08:08:35 · 20 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
hes american ... he doesnt want me to marrywith him to "become a citizen" he already is.... Also he wants to marry bc he found that im the girl he always expect to be with...
2006-08-15 08:22:25 · update #1
I think i would go for a visit like on the holidays or something so that it dont mess with you studies. but hey your really lucky if his family care about you that much then go for it...
2006-08-15 08:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just smile and be happy! That is great that you found someone who loves you and their family loves you too! You should feel lucky and excited that you are going to be a part of such a great group of people!
2006-08-15 15:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy this sounds really strange to me. Is it an arranged marriage cuz if it is I wouldn't want to be part of it. I would never marry a man I didn't know. His family could be wanting you to marry him so he can become a citizen then he will dumb your butt. I wouldn't do it but for each it's own or whatever that saying is. Good Luck but i think your nuts.
2006-08-15 15:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"i feel this ppl are great for me too.."
Then let the meeting proceed, and take it from there...you can always say no and so can he. Don't let anyone pressure you into anything...use your instincts, mind and soul to lead you...you'll do the right thing. Don't be enamored by the family ... just because they say they love you and want you to marry their son...doesn't mean they are incredible...they could possibly just want their son to launch (move out of their home) :) It will be if it is meant to be. Trust yourself.
Good luck.
2006-08-15 15:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go meet the family. you will never know if you find true love until you meet the person face to face. It may not work out then you have nothing to lose but if it does you have so much to gain.
2006-08-15 15:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Carol 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what to say, if you feel you have that connection with him, than be happy! But it will be alittle awkward for you and him once you guys meet face to face for the first time.
Maybe you might not like him, or he might not like you. I dont know, if you love him than there is nothing to be worried about. How old are you anyway?
2006-08-15 16:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by Happily Married 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh.. please be careful here...
Things may change if you go over there.. other countries have their own rules to follow.. men in other countries are very demanding and controling.. it is their way.
I also know from a friend of mine that married someone over in another country that they think ALL Americans are rich.. Once you are there.. they could own you and force you to do things you will not want to do.....Also have to tell you that men are looking to marry American women so they can come to the United States if they can't get a green card on their own... then once a family member is here.. then they all can come over for visits..
2006-08-15 15:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by Ibdreamin099 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you love him and you think you know hime well enough to leave your family for his then do what you feel makes you happy you really cant find that many good men anymore.
2006-08-15 15:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by LOVELY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your family what if you get there and there nuts and you don't have money too leave. If your going to go find a way you can get back too if you need to.
2006-08-15 15:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey its great you bf and his family loves you...but you havent really met him in person yet...best thing to do is to meet him before you decide if you want to marry him or not.
2006-08-15 15:13:58 · answer #10 · answered by casj2006 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋