Here is the situation.. I am bi and I am in a long term relationship with this guy. We've been together for 2 years now. I am miserable in this relationship and would like to end it, but we live together and I'm afraid to leave because I don’t know if I can make it on my own.
Six months into our relationship I told him I was going to have sex with a good friend of mine from high school and if he wanted he could watch but not touch. He agreed and she came over and I lost my lesbian virginity. Lol.
Over the past year and a half I have wanted less and less to do with him and now we go weeks without sex because I am not attracted to him.
I'm starting to wonder if I'm totally gay or if he just isn’t the one for me.
Please help. Serious answers only.
2006-08-15 08:05:12 · 4 answers · asked by Steph 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just so you all know, all of the bills are split 50/50 with the exception of the phone and internet (those are mine to pay) and the cable (that is his to pay)
2006-08-15 10:08:41 · update #1
If you feel no desire to be with him, then he is not right for you...
Since you are in a relationship my opinion is that maybe you should let him know that you have lost those lovin feelings for him.....
If it's nothing he did to cause this ( meaning you might be fully gay ) then you telling him should not be an issue.....
If you are unsure how you feel towards the same or opposit sex , maybe some personal time and deep thoughts from the heart may open the door to your question......
Good Luck Hope it might help.......
P.S. If he's payin all the bills use caution and tact telling him your unhappy........
Well you should do that just outa mutual respect for the 1 your in a relationship with......
2006-08-15 08:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by Larry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definetly feel that he is not the one for you and you are just with him because you cant survive by yourself. BuT you have to gain self-confidence or else you will be unhappy for the rest of your life! If you are still attracted to guys than you obviously are not totally lesbian.
2006-08-15 15:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Incredible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't keep using him just because you are afraid you can't make it on your own! That's not fair to him....or to you either because you remain unhappy.
As for your sexuality--who knows....the only way that you could be certain of that would be to venture out on your own as a single person.
Good luck!
2006-08-15 15:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can make it on your own so stop leeching off this guy
2006-08-15 15:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by slippped 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋