i know this is a matter of opinion, not a matter of fact, but...
i am in a relationship, and i love the person very much, but i know im not "in love". the sex is great, we get along, were best friends, but....im not in love and i know that this person is very much in love with me. is it wrong for me to be in this relationship?
2006-08-15 08:05:47 · 24 answers · asked by an-toe-knee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's just a different relationship. There are all different kinds and this sounds like a fun relationship, but just not a serious serious one for you. It's ok if you both know where you stand, but if the other person thinks that you do love him/her, then it could be wrong, because then you're at different points. Just be careful since the person is your best friends. You don't want to lose what you have over a bad miscommunication.
2006-08-15 08:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by Yada Yada Yada 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not wrong of you to be in the relationship because one day you might love her. Maybe you might need some time apart that is if you spend to much time together. Maybe that is why you are asking this question. Take a while to just be alone but, that does not mean see other people though (because if you do see other people then you really don't have that much feelings for her). Then when you see her again and if your over joyed then there is a little love actually more than a little love. I hope it all works out. Love can be complicated.
2006-08-15 15:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by in LOVE with... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't wrong for you to be in this relationship. You may very well fall in love with this person later. Most relationships start out with neither party in love with the other, they just grow that way.
2006-08-15 15:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by bowtierodz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because you are just letting this person on. They are thinking that you love them just as much as they love you. I believe that if someone doesn't truely love the other person in the relationship, then there isn't much of an relationship.
2006-08-15 15:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by kat81886 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people stay in relationships because they fear being alone. it may be mutual for you and your girlfriend. it sucks that we do this while waiting for the "right" person to come along, but it happens every day.
other people are just glad to be out of the dating scene and feel comfortable with the person.
what is love to you anyways? is it passion? is it that tingly feeling you get in your gut? all that fades and you're left with a human being whom you may want to get along with and hold a conversation with. you may not find another best friend/girl friend. don't take that for granted. although, you may still be young and looking for adventure and variety.....
2006-08-15 15:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You may grow to be in-love with her but, if you know right now that you could never be in-love with her than you should end this. I think most relationships start BEFORE you realize you are in love.
2006-08-15 15:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love this person but are not in love, at least give the person the chance to answer the question because it is that person who is being affected most.
2006-08-15 15:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Madeamove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its wrong for both of u... cuz as long ur not in love u dont know what feelings this person have for you and right now ur feeling great but what's gonna happen after all this "great feeling" is gone? what would happen with the other person? you gotta stop and sayin the true instead actin selfish....
2006-08-15 15:10:47 · answer #8 · answered by *live,laugh,love* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong...but think about how youre going to be in the future, i mean, how far do you want to take this relationship. you might want to talk to her about it. anyways, people fall 'out' love (haha) after 1-3 years of marriage. its been proven, well for the most part. (watched some show on it).
2006-08-15 15:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by sugar4sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to tell her how you feel. You dont want to hurt her at all, cuz you do love her, so instead of leading her on let her know. It is very important to express your feelings and emotions, I'm sure she does.
2006-08-15 15:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by genietini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋