Family & Relationships - 14 August 2006

While my ex and I were broken up last year, I drunkinly made a mistake and had unprotected sex with one of my co-workers, on October 14th...and so my ex and I got back together and we decided to have a child...I decided not to start new pills, and so mine ran out October 31st...I made sure I had taken one every single day like I was supposed to at the same time everyday.
And 2 days after we had sex, I got my period...
Well 2 weeks later, I took a pregnancy test, and one at Planned Parenthood, and both came out negative...meanwhile my ex and I had been having so much unprotected sex...and continued to do so, and my last period was November 17th, and the 1st or 2nd week into December, I bought a home prgnancy test and it came out positive.

Is there any chance at all that this could be my co-workers child?
I don't want that, I want this to be my ex's baby, and I don't think it's this other guys at all, but to be sure, I want your opinions...'cause s*** happens...

2006-08-14 17:20:16 · 16 answers · asked by aztec_princess_87 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 17:16:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 17:16:46 · 12 answers · asked by Nani 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do Girls get all B1tchy and moodie with people when they are on their Period?

2006-08-14 17:16:40 · 18 answers · asked by Latino_Lifestyle 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

y is it that wen i ask a question that i actually need an answer for it takes hours or even days to get an friggen answer, but then wen theres a question that has the word SEX or friggen MASTERBATING people answer within 10 friggen seconds!!!

ok i need a recipe for a spicy carrot salad... plz help if u can.. :)
(i was at this wedding where they had this salad which pretty much was just carrots cut into long noodle like strings and they were in this spicy sweet sauce... ive been trying to find the recipe so any help would b great.. thanx! :)

2006-08-14 17:16:15 · 7 answers · asked by FutureNurse 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-14 17:14:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 17:14:52 · 21 answers · asked by chdman 3 in Friends

IF I divorced my husband, we have two daughters, and I found a good job in another state, is that capable of happening, or since we have children would I have to move close by? I have good reason why I want to leave, I just don't want to live around here, and I definitely want my children with me...

2006-08-14 17:14:46 · 9 answers · asked by tgallenstein01 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a best friend, and I think he likes me, but that's a whole different story. Well, my mom doesn't like him calling me because she doesn't believe we're "just friends". We are just friends, we're not going out. But since we don't see eachother till school starts, we've been talking on the phone more often. She has lied to him (and me) telling him that I'm not home, when I really am. And I get very upset. He, of course, notices it and it's so humiliating for me. I dont want him to stop calling because of her, because we're best friends and that wouldn't be fair. She always gets some excuse to use the phone while I'm talking to him, or she screams and yells at me, and he knows we're arguing about him. But how can I get my mom to undersand that we CAN be just friends if we want to? I don't want my friend to feel bad, but I've noticed that he does...what should I do about this situation?

2006-08-14 17:14:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

the first 2 years we were together I completely, fully trusted my wife. I'd keep $50 out of my check and give the rest to her for the bills and whatever. She acted totally head over heals in love with me, sex was awesome. Then accidently one day i find out she has her own checkings account, her own storeage room and a p.o. box to send all paper work to so i wouldn't find out. This started about 3 weeks after we got married apperantly. I was devastated that shes had 1 foot out the door the whole time we were together. My mom said "so whats the big deal?" It is a huge deal to me ......should it be?

2006-08-14 17:13:11 · 18 answers · asked by Mr.Obvious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have no problem with with dating another guy of another etnicity. But it seems like alot of non-black men are reluctant to date a Black woman. I get suggestive stares form a lot of non-black guys but they seem to be very intimated and taken by my attractiveness and they don't ask me out. Are non-black men afriad of Black women or do they believe in a lot of negative stereotypes?

2006-08-14 17:13:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going through a tough time with trying to understand my husband. He disciplines our boys differently than I. He gets sort of rough with them when he spanks them and says the corner is out of the question that it doesn't work, only wuppings work. My husband has left some bruises before and seems very angery when getting on to them. So when he gets to angry or upset and gets rough when he wuppes them, example: after spanking our 6 yr. old he shoved him of the bed but didn't leave any marks, but he said he only done it to make him get of the bed. I step in because i see it has treating a child incorrectly. When i step in he tells me to butt out, not to tell him how to discipline the boys. That if i keep over minding him he will divorce me. Am i wrong for being concerned and stepping in or his he wrong and just to stubborn to understand and rather do things his way. What do you thing about this situation?

2006-08-14 17:13:01 · 21 answers · asked by Autumn E 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

HELP!!!

2006-08-14 17:12:56 · 16 answers · asked by Larry 4 in Friends

how can u guys tell if a girl or not what do she have to do?

2006-08-14 17:12:47 · 10 answers · asked by chante j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

but in the same time he says dat he loves me ??? shall i belive him ??

2006-08-14 17:12:37 · 10 answers · asked by pink rose 1 in Friends

My male friend is still smiling at me alot. He did give me his cell number and said he wants to call him. He works alot, but I have called a couple times. We talked briefly, cause he was at work. I am not sure where I stand with him right now. Do U think he is to busy working all them hours and just cant find the time, or is it something else. Our friendship started a few months ago where he works, and I was always saying high and smiling at him. I did make a comment about his eyes being very beautiful, and it started from there.. So what can I do now, just wait or do U think this is going to go anywhere??? Plz Help!!

2006-08-14 17:12:04 · 5 answers · asked by Hi 3 in Friends

I went on a class trip w/ a couple of ppl to yellowstone N.P. in the begginning of summer. One of these ppl is a girl that works w/ me at the pool. I decided to go see a movie w/ the ppl i went and of course invited her. Now theres a rumor going around at work that im dating w/ her. Both me and her r really shy(her especially) and i dont want to put her in a bad spot. Should i wait till this passes or do something about it.

2006-08-14 17:11:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do high school girls go for the guys with better looks or the ones you call "sweethearts". I dont think i am very "hot" but a lot of girls say that i am one of the nicest guys in the grade. What is your opinions on the subject.

2006-08-14 17:11:21 · 19 answers · asked by minerfan51 1 in Singles & Dating

First off, I want to apologize if this might seem to be a bit tedious.

Anyway, I was with this guy for a year, and we fought a lot, but we loved each other so much. After a year, I just realized that I'm not strong enough to be in this relationship. He went out with his friends a lot, and I would get jealous if there were girls there. I can't help it, I'm just a really jealous person. But anyway, I ended things because things were getting out of hand, and all the crying and the yelling was too much for me. But now, a few months later, I'm just plain confused. I still love him so much, and I want him back, but I don't want to go back to all that fighting and the jealousy. But I know that there will be no other guy out there that would love me as much as he did. What should I do?

Thank you so much.

2006-08-14 17:10:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother has anger issues and the rest of my family acts like they hate him for it. I know my mom cares but my sister acts like she doesn't. I understand him a little and try to help him as much as i can. it doesn't seem to be enough. He sometimes gets violent and threatens us. I don't know how to help him.

2006-08-14 17:10:41 · 6 answers · asked by darksorceresss 1 in Family

He pulled the " you know I'm your husband " when I said someone asked me to keep something quiet that they were embarrassed about.

2006-08-14 17:10:06 · 13 answers · asked by Caramel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-14 17:10:00 · 5 answers · asked by George 2 in Marriage & Divorce

First off, I want to apologize if this might seem to be a bit tedious.

Anyway, I was with this guy for a year, and we fought a lot, but we loved each other so much. After a year, I just realized that I'm not strong enough to be in this relationship. He went out with his friends a lot, and I would get jealous if there were girls there. I can't help it, I'm just a really jealous person. But anyway, I ended things because things were getting out of hand, and all the crying and the yelling was too much for me. But now, a few months later, I'm just plain confused. I still love him so much, and I want him back, but I don't want to go back to all that fighting and the jealousy. But I know that there will be no other guy out there that would love me as much as he did. What should I do?

Thank you so much.

2006-08-14 17:09:47 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if your bf goes to a sleepover party of the girl he had a major crush on before you, even though there were other guys and girls there?

2006-08-14 17:09:41 · 14 answers · asked by nunovyorebiznis 4 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if your husband who was suppose to be at a friends house but is at a club doesn't come straight home after you catch him?

2006-08-14 17:08:55 · 24 answers · asked by c1downmama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am christian male from Alabama. Looking for christian girls or any girls that want to go out with a guy with his life in church. If that is you then reply. Picture in profile. ID- always_trust_in_jesus.

2006-08-14 17:08:34 · 4 answers · asked by always_trust_in_jesus 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 17:08:27 · 7 answers · asked by Mike R 1 in Weddings

I'd never cheat or divorce my hubby but I've been thinking of my ex and for some reason i feel bad about it eventhough i've done nothing wrong. why do i feel bad? i love my hubby

2006-08-14 17:07:48 · 20 answers · asked by jojo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He thinks he is going to lose me. Then he's getting feelings like something bad is going to happen between us. So, i get feelings that he's going to break up with me. i asked him if he is and he says no, but it's in and iconfident voice. then he will say i love you. i know his friends r drifting away from him, but is this normal? what should i do for him and our relationship?

2006-08-14 17:07:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thats pretty much it I was wondering what people thank?

2006-08-14 17:07:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating