Family & Relationships - 14 August 2006

All the "other women" I've known seem to romaniticize and idealize the life that the wife and husband lead. They dont realize what living with someone you dont trust, respect or even love is like. just living together because of the kids.

Any perspectives on why they do this? From people who've experienced this only please

2006-08-14 16:53:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he expects sex when and how he wants it ,so why shouldnt a woman. in a marriage it is supposed to be equal, not only satisfy him and you get left out in the cold. frustrated and alone. why are men so selfish?

2006-08-14 16:52:34 · 20 answers · asked by cmac 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Tonight, I hung out with this girl that lives down the street from me. I have known her for a while. We hung out tonight, and we ended going back to her house. We played scrabble, and we ended up in a tickle fight. After that, we ended up out on the porch for a little bit before I had to go. We sat really close together, and were basically getting really close and personal. Should I have kissed her (or anything else that seems right?)?
(Note: this was the first time we hung out besides with other friends)

2006-08-14 16:52:08 · 9 answers · asked by Jake 2 in Friends

theres alot of ppl on here that really dont care what they say to an answer as long as they get their stupid points.. i have a ? wtf ,, are there really any single ppl looking for love that doesnt involve money and or a place for others to take care of a nother womans kids or just give them a place to live, i've seen so much of this on here ,,

2006-08-14 16:51:56 · 13 answers · asked by palettman1 1 in Singles & Dating

would you follow your heart?

2006-08-14 16:51:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If a guy has sex or has more then his fair share of girls or girlfriends is he concidered a 'pimp, stud, ect.' but if a girl or lady does this she is a 'slut, whore, skank, b*tch, ect'?

2006-08-14 16:51:39 · 8 answers · asked by Stephanie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-14 16:50:26 · 11 answers · asked by BlondeCheerChick 3 in Singles & Dating

how do i know if a guy is inlove with his bestfriend?

I have a friend who is really very close to me. We chat often and share most of our interest. we ever share secrets with each other.I had a crush over him long before, but i thought it'll be better for us to be "just friends" coz at the fisrt place i dont wanna ruin the friendship. Until such time he told me he's falling for somebody else. Its so hard to still pretend to be " just a friend" when he's sharing me all their sweet moments together. We're still bein' friends, only that, i wanted to get over him so i decided to divert my feelings to another guy. Ive met a guy whom i did love, but the relationship didnt last. I was really badly hurt,....I even end up crying..When my bestfrind learned about it. he was really convinced to STOP me from dating guys again coz they might cheat me and i'll only get hurt. He said its better to be alone than to be in love with someone.I was a bit confused coz he seem there seem to be consistencies in his remarks. Cud that mean anythi

2006-08-14 16:50:21 · 3 answers · asked by joan mae l 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a 3-year old son, he is very cute. I really want to be a great father. However, I can not be the one on my own. Do you have some suggestion for some books or some experence?

2006-08-14 16:49:46 · 7 answers · asked by stevenweiwang 2 in Family

We have been living together for more than a year now and she seemed to be very cold at me! She is still insisting that she loves me but she doesnt want me to kiss her, cuddle her or even hug her at night anymore. I feel so confused and heartbroken and I dont know what to do.. I want to give her up and moved on with my life but my heart says "NO". I love her so much that I can even offer and sacrifice my life for her.. Today, we quarelled again and keeps on yelling at me just because of a very simple reason. I hope you could help me guys!!! Thank you..

2006-08-14 16:49:37 · 4 answers · asked by Jake F 1 in Singles & Dating

i know of few men that beleive sex toys are not supposed to be used in a married household. but what could make them believe that it takes away from them? if the woman in the relationship wants them and the man doesnt, how do they compromise?

2006-08-14 16:49:28 · 10 answers · asked by cmac 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-14 16:48:43 · 29 answers · asked by thematrix_esl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-14 16:48:36 · 30 answers · asked by foune d 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been getting alot of pressure from my husband to have anal sex .We tried it last yr and it hurt and bled.And he didnt even get his penis in .He bought some asperin drops to try again.But I havent tried it again .Kind a turned off to it after that happened but would still like to .Any advice?yes we used lube lots!

2006-08-14 16:48:09 · 13 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-14 16:48:06 · 2 answers · asked by bbiggs5 1 in Singles & Dating

alright, so one of my best friends is going out with another one of my best friends (who, about a year ago, i went out with and in the end she just thought of me as a friend) for the second time in a year (both times being after i went out with her). i still like this girl... even after about a year, i still like her. i dont know why, but i do. and right now im kinda jealous of my friend, and i feel kinda bad about it. i wasnt going to say anything to him about it cu i dont want to screw things up for him and all, but is there a good way for me to deal with this jealousy? i would really appreciate the help.

2006-08-14 16:48:05 · 4 answers · asked by Randomperson 1 in Friends

2006-08-14 16:46:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have looked for the subscription online, but can't find it.

Do they even offer it as a subscription, or are there so few issues each year that it really wouldn't make sense to have it as a subscription?

Just curious. :)

2006-08-14 16:46:01 · 2 answers · asked by ☼ lovethesun11 2 in Weddings

2006-08-14 16:45:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-14 16:45:37 · 25 answers · asked by juanito paulo deita 1 in Singles & Dating

heres the deal...fiance and i broke up 3 weeks before our wedding..he decided he wanted to try things out with a mutual friend of ours and now they are together...the real kicker is that i work with both of them every day which is just a kick in the face and i cant stand it...i may be getting a transfer to another state but if i go its kinda like they win if that makes sense...do i stick it out just to make their lives hell or do i leave to make my life easier?

2006-08-14 16:45:32 · 13 answers · asked by pezilove 2 in Singles & Dating

I think that the spontaneity spices up the sexual part of a couples relationship. The couple does not really even need to go all the way, its just that fun little secrete that only they know. It has to be a sensual thing.

2006-08-14 16:43:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My fren's got a sis who lashes out at em for no reason evrytime. I think mainly cuz she's been thru alot of failures in life n her bro's more successful thn her in his life's achievements.main problem could b jealousy but i'm not too sure.

when i'm on the phone wif her brother smtimes i'd hear her banging on the door n crash right in to get the phone off him. i heard she's got sm arguements wif her dad.. who got fed up with her and slapped her n she slapped him back. she's got this altered ego of hers who she thinks tht she is always right all the time.

recently even more serious, she start getting really angry at her lil brother (5 years old) for saying tht he doesn't want anything for dinner. She start hitting him really badly until my friend and his mom have to come separate them. still she keeps stratching my friend&screamed tht she dun care if he lives or dies.

its getting pretty serious. shud my friend call the police? or shud they send her2the nut house? HELP

2006-08-14 16:42:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

anyone knows i good hindu astrologer please. Who i can meet in person, regards to marriage. I am a mangalik girl and having trouble getting married. Can somebody help please.



thanks
nadia

2006-08-14 16:42:33 · 6 answers · asked by nadia_k5 1 in Weddings

What the f--k is up with the people that get on here and answer your questions and get in your $hit but then when U check out their profile you can not contact them back .No e-mail IM or anything. For all of you out there like this please do not answer any more of my questions because all of my questions are very serious . Do you think someone is going to jump out of the computer and bite you in the a$$ or something . Slap you in the head maybe but not bite you.To be part of this you should be required to leave a way to be contacted and I will bring that up at the next board metting.

2006-08-14 16:41:59 · 23 answers · asked by irishlad 3 in Singles & Dating

well theres this girl i really like and was thinking about asking her out but the thing is shes too tall aroung 5'7'' or 8'' and im 5'9'' (but still gonna grow) im afraid shell say no because of my height, do tall girls prefer taller guys? or am i okay for her?

2006-08-14 16:41:57 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A old friend saw my brother and gave him a phone number for me to call him. See when i was 15 and he was 12 i kissed him. It was his first kiss. Well i called him and we met for dinner. It was a nice evening. Then he called me again and we met a his house. Well it was another nice evening. We talked and he told me that after all these years he still had something for me. Well i liked him too back then but i thought he was to young. We thought about each other all the time over the years. I'm 47 and he is 44. I'm married and he is still single. Well we had sex. It was wonderful. He also told me that the kiss ruined him for life. I still don't understand that. He said that he wanted to have an affair and i said yes. He has been dating this girl for a year. I asked him how their relationship was and he said ok. I can't believe that he has been feeling this way for years. What do you think that he is doing? Does he really want me or what. I do care about him.

2006-08-14 16:41:52 · 5 answers · asked by Dale S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright. Two people are friends until it comes to a point where they are more than friends and have strong feelings about each other and hook up, one person is in a bad relationship because of financial problems..the other is single. The affair stops, the two don't speak for 8 months not knowing they both can't stop thinking about one another. The one persons realationship is still in a bad situation, cannot get out of it, the other is still single. They meet again, and talk about everything knowing there are strong feelings for each other still, the single person is very hurt, the other who's in the relationship feels horrible and apologizes and never meant to hurt them. So it comes to a point where whats next? Still see each other on the side, even though its a bad relationship but cannot get out of it because of financial reasons and do not get along? Or just end it all together even though its something real and both care about each other a lot. HELP! I am in a pickle!

2006-08-14 16:41:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need to testify agaisnt a family member in court. now my fam member is wrong(lied) and if i dont testify this person in trail will go to jail but i dont want conflict with my family for doing it? what do i do?

2006-08-14 16:41:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well today we and 1 of my friends were walking down to my house my friend left....then i told her what should we do?? she is lie i wanna go home....now tonight i called her and yesterday she never returned my calls?.....is this some sign that she wants to break up with me and oh yeah she told one of my friends that im boring to talk to....WHAT SHOULD I DO!!

2006-08-14 16:40:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships