heres the deal...fiance and i broke up 3 weeks before our wedding..he decided he wanted to try things out with a mutual friend of ours and now they are together...the real kicker is that i work with both of them every day which is just a kick in the face and i cant stand it...i may be getting a transfer to another state but if i go its kinda like they win if that makes sense...do i stick it out just to make their lives hell or do i leave to make my life easier?
2006-08-14 16:45:32 · 13 answers · asked by pezilove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man, I thought I had it bad. I worked with my ex but she got stationed to another country. I still don't like the idea of going back to work because her friends like to say things about me. I'm in Iraq now. That's one of the worst things to do to someone. Especially, with a former friend and you work with them. At least I don't have to see my ex. I think if it is hard for you, you should go. Unless you like your job or where you are at. contact me if you want to talk about it.
2006-08-14 16:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what they think. Do what is best for you. You can start a whole new life in that other state. Find a guy that will love you and not want to sow his oats and see if he'll match better with another friend. You don't want a guy like that. Do you have family and friends where you are now? That may be hard if that is what you're considering. Live it up. Do you have anything else holding you back?
2006-08-14 17:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by jeann1220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If leaving makes sense for other reasons it would probably be best to take the transfer. Making your life miserable (by sticking around) to prove a point is probably not the way to longterm happiness.
2006-08-14 17:15:13 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Nightcall 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave this mess alone. Move on and find someone who will love you and only you. You don't need this jerk. Make your life easier and let them be misrable together. He's a jerk and she's a byotch! Find a real man who will make you happy. You don't deserve this hun.
2006-08-14 16:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by Queen of Kings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw them both, just worry about yourself, if the transfer will be easier on you, go for it. It can be a new beginning for you. Good luck
2006-08-14 16:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by stowchick01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can transfer, move on and quickly. better that neither of these people waste any more of your time and energy or cause you any more pain. if you stay to torture them, it will only end up torturing you. concentrate on making the most of your life and feel lucky that you didn't marry someone so fickle.
2006-08-14 16:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by Eos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what makes you feel best but make their lives a living hell for you go lol
2006-08-14 16:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by confused89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make your decision based on them. You aren't in the revenge business.
2006-08-14 16:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by BeamMeUpMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that must suck, but you already know what you have to do. you should move on with your life and let them live their lives. good luck to you
PS
never date anyone from work, bet you learned your lesson, huh?
2006-08-14 16:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by go cowboys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave and go back with ur girlfriend.who's the looser now?his gonna dump her in a sec.just kidding
2006-08-14 16:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋