2006-08-14 16:46:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his girlfriend is a hottie
2006-08-14 16:58:49 · update #1
Not having real sex is the result of getting his sex appetite met through the pornography; so it's "normal" or what happens in this situation. What's not normal is the porn addiction. Pornography ruins relationships. I know firsthand.
2006-08-14 17:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Goldenrain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-20 06:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by Kermit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not normal. I feel sorry for his gf. Porn magazines and movies create an illusion of sex... you know, like every woman has the perfect body, loves to take it in the @$$, and gets hot and bothered when a man ***$ on her face... which is not reality. The guy is probably basing his expections of sex with his gf on these porn movies/magazines. He needs to give up the porn or the gf needs to give him up and get with someone who doesn't expect her to perform like Jenna Jameson.
2006-08-14 16:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Gf its not right for any man to be in a committed relationship and have sexual fantasies fulfilled thru porn mags and movies. Also , you need to be married to engage in any type of sexual activity. Here is what the bible says about this issue. Romans 6:12 Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, that ye should obey it in the lusts thereof. Romans 6:18 "Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth agains his own body
2006-08-14 17:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by agnan20032003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. How long have you been seeing him? If it's early into the relationship, he may not be ready to put the moves on you just yet and he's using the pornos as a sexual aid...for now. But if you have been seeing him for a while now, and he seems to be more into pornos than you, there's a problem. He might even have a unhealthy addiction to porn. But I can't fully answer your question because you didn't give enough detail, but I will tell you this: Talk to him about this if it really bothers you. Tell him you want him to pay more attention to you sexually. If this doesn't break his addiction, you might want to get him into counseling. Good Luck!
2006-08-14 17:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is getting too used to madam palm and not keeping his interest in You. The porn lets him fantasize and does not take the effort of putting up a good session of lovemaking. It is up to you to set him straight and let him know that belongs to You just as You belong to him. Sharing does not mean looking at porn together. Why not try making your own video.. Doing that can really be fun but be sure you control the results.
2006-08-14 16:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really healthy. That indicates that you're interested in fantasies and a pre-defined ideal rather than your girlfriend who's real, and right in front of you.
If it's because you haven't had sex with your girlfriend yet and you're waiting, that's one thing. If you have had sex and prefer porn....then you need to take the steps to spice up your sex life. Tell your girlfriend you'd like to experiment a bit, and be just as willing to please her as you expect her to please you. Try toys, different positions, etc.
2006-08-14 16:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not normal. I saw this on a t.v. show, where the guy can only get off watching porn, and couldn't get it up for his girlfriend. It does happen but I think it necessitates the guy STOPPING his porn habit.
2006-08-14 16:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by Becca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two probably aren't compatible. He's just not that attracted to you as a blonde fake breasted porn star. Dump him for someone with taste and respect for women.
2006-08-14 16:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really normal! Sounds like he is lazy and will get worse in time.So get a new boyfriend ,he is not marriage material etc.
2006-08-14 16:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋