Tonight, I hung out with this girl that lives down the street from me. I have known her for a while. We hung out tonight, and we ended going back to her house. We played scrabble, and we ended up in a tickle fight. After that, we ended up out on the porch for a little bit before I had to go. We sat really close together, and were basically getting really close and personal. Should I have kissed her (or anything else that seems right?)?
(Note: this was the first time we hung out besides with other friends)
2006-08-14 16:52:08 · 9 answers · asked by Jake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tonight, I hung out with this girl that lives down the street from me. I have known her for a while. We hung out tonight, and we ended going back to her house. We played scrabble, and we ended up in a tickle fight. After that, we ended up out on the porch for a little bit before I had to go. We sat really close together, and were basically getting really close and personal. Should I have kissed her (or anything else that seems right?)?
(Note: this was the first time we hung out besides with other friends)
If another moment like this comes along, what should I do?
2006-08-14 17:08:55 · update #1
Don't get hung up on what you should have done or shouldn't have done. That only causes you to freak out and think too much. I'm sure whatever you two did was fine with her, as long as you had fun then that's no problem. Besides if it was the first time you hung out with her then why bother rushing into things? Sounds like you were the perfect date that night and I wouldn't be surprised if she asked to hang out again, then maybe when you get on the porch again, but whatever you did last time was completely right.
2006-08-14 17:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by Tell.Me.Sweetly. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did okay by not kissing her if this is the first time you've hung out with her by yourself. If you did kiss her, she may have thought you were going too fast or too forward. Also, she could have taken the initiative and kissed you; it takes two to tango. ;) Wait till you hang out with her more.
2006-08-15 00:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about if you did the right thing or not. When you are ready to kiss her, you will know it when the time is right. It's also good that you are spending time with her and getting to know her. Continue to do that and maybe she will be the one to kiss you first! Good Luck!
2006-08-15 00:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should, but maybe u did the right things. If this is the 1st time that u 2 hung out as friends, maybe it was good that u took it slow... maybe let her know that ur interested in her in that way b4 u smack one her, otherwise, (if she doesn't feel the same) it might *** as a rude shock!
2006-08-14 23:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by cassycookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me wait for the moment when it happens and you both don't expect it! it's the most beautiful thing in the world!! if you as her or tell her when it's coming or if you no then it just ruins the magical feeling!!
2006-08-15 00:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should make a big deal about it. it will happen when it happens and i doubt that she hates you cause you didn't kiss her tonight. Just chill out dude, this is not a big deal.
2006-08-15 00:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what happened can't be undone so it's not anymore important to ponder if u did the right thing or not. just wait till ur next time together, and goodluck! :)
2006-08-14 23:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by mency a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That prolly was your chance to kiss her yea lol
2006-08-15 00:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by Sammie Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slowly wait till she kisses u
2006-08-14 23:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋