Im sad, hurt, depressed, & feeling pain in my stomach because of some friend.Do friends hurt everytime ?

Answer 1

Nope not if they are real friends. The real question here is why are you letting other people make you feel so bad? Whatever they said or didn't doesn't change you or who you are so its really not that big a deal when you really think about it. Go look in the mirror, you are still the same person no matter what they did.

Answer 2

I am really sorry that someone you consider a friend hurt you. If they deliberately did so, you have every right to be upset. It might be wise, however, to revisit the issue and consider other explanations. I think that some people look for reasons to feel hurt. In America its called having a chip on your shoulder. if you do, even innocent things will be interpreted as mean and hateful. You have to come to a point in your life where you realze that not everyone is out to get you and that there are not hidden agendas to all freindships. There are people out there who love you for who you are and not what you can give them. Take the love as it is given to you, be forgiving of their faults as you would like to be forgiven for your own, and experience the range of emotions that a true freindship will elicit. If you spend your life looking for a "perfect" friend, you will never be happy. Take some time to work on those friendships that are important to you and let the ones that you dont care about go. Just look hard at yourself and be willing to change as much as you expect others to. True friendships are give and take.

Answer 3

Friends or family or even strangers can have that effect on a person.

There is a strong connection between one's emotions and one's body - there's an entire branch of medicine dealing with psychosomatic disorders - don't let the p-word get to you. Everyone has experienced a stomachache or headache that was brought on by someone else's ignorant or hurtful behaviour. And depression - clinical depression - manifests in body aches - stomach, bowels, head, you name it.

Now, as to your question, do friends hurt every time?

N O.

If your friends are making you hurt, depressed etc. it's time for a little trick my Mother used to use - "Change the wallpaper!"

Time for different friends, who will respect you and not inflict psychic pain on you. (You could always tell your friends that they are being hurtful but you know, young people are amazingly self-centred. The likeliest response you will get will be "Who, me? What did I do? " - they just won't see it.)

Answer 4

It is so unfortunate, but the real understanding of the psyche of people often comes as a result of something they did to you, or perhaps something you did to them. The growth part of this situation is when you mature, become older and you see that old friend and the funny thing then - is you hardly remember what it was that upset you in the first place. It is so good that our hearts and minds and spirits are made like that. We can forget what we want to - and if we choose to hold on to it, it's because we don't want to forget, but it makes us feel good to have something hanging over someone else's head. I am sure right now what you feel is stress over the situation and it is acting itself out in a physical way and that's why it's a good thing that we don't hold onto hurts and anger and depression - it can kill us. We must, as people, learn how to forgive one another for the indiscretions we commit and omit, so that we can be the free ones. I pray that your physical health will return to natural and healthy. Pray for healing in your body and in your mind. Just ask the Lord to return to you, His peace and joy and love and you'll be able to get over this hurt from your friend and then love her/him in a way that is beyond man's understanding. That's what true love is really. God bless you, may He give you peace and grant you the serenity to understand and deal with all that is placed in your pathway - for His love is much greater than any pain you could experience.

Answer 5

OF COURSE Not All friends hurt EVERY TIME, in fact, they should rarely do so and never deliberately, but sometimes, occasionally as we are all human, they do it without meaning to. If they were to do so on purpose then as Flamingo said, that is NOT a true friend. That pain in your stomach could be disappointment, anger and frustration because you try to please them and they take you for granted. A good cry may make the tension less but you are probably depressed so it won't fade completely. You need to make better friends.
But don't worry Chdman, you are still a wonderful guy but take your time in getting to know them and make sure they are worthy.

Answer 6

No!!! Good friends make you feel better about who you really are. They know you and like you anyway. They may at times tell you things you would rather not hear, but the intention is to keep you on track. You need to rethink your friendships. Everyone goes through lonely times. Hang in there.

Answer 7

If a friend deliberately hurts you they not a true friend. If it's done unintentionally and they've apologized you should forgive them because no body's perfect.

Maybe you need to analyze why you keep finding friends like this.

Answer 8

If you have friends who hurt you without a valid reason, its time you keep a distance away from them.
Go and make new friends.
In this world, there is no such things as I can't live without someone.

Answer 9

Yeah..there's times when friends do hurt you. I was hurt by my best friend and that was the end. We are hi-bye friends...
no more going out
no more being dorky together
no more friends

Answer 10

True friends shouldn't hurt you. I can relate to the feeling of betrayal....